Okay, so I was dating this girl for awhile. We had a good thing until she got flaky. Lots of drama and back and forth and just a real pain in the ass. She kept telling me she was hopeful that we could try again another time and that she was working on getting to that point. I interpreted this as total bullshit and a way to string me along.

I was pretty straight up about the fact that I wasnt waiting around so it came as a surprise when she flipped out that I was seeing another girl.

Anyways, she saw me with this girl awhile back. Now, granted she 'kinda' knows this other girl but just friends of friends bullshit. So after seeing me with her she completely flips, de-friends me, turns all her friends against me, etc.

Well Im not an expert on women, but one thing Im fairly sure of is that she was just thinking she was stringing me along and waiting for an opportunity to end it 'on her terms.' This allowed her to get out guilt free and also label me 'the bad guy.'

So what now? I dont really give a shit about the whole thing and to be quite honest I am actually enjoying not dealing with the drama anymore. I guess Im struggling with being 'the bad guy.' The new girl I am hangin with knows the deal and doesnt seem to have a problem at all.

How do I proceed when I see the ex?

small town huh?
i neva run into any of my ex's


i would say just ignore her our .. make a point to her that it was her loses not yours.etc


am not in a position to say any thing tho..
am just saying what i would do before i found out about PUA


but in general if i get rejected i usely say its ur lost and talk to a nutha girl in front of her to show that i was just trying to play here..

i hope it make sense...

act the same.. if she comes to you politely (meaning she ain't being a bitch bout it!.. (re)introduced your girl.. this shows the GF that it doesn't matter to you what the other thinks.. IMO...

Act kool man.. just be straight up unaffected, us alpha's have to front when we feel uncomfortable

Yeah I know your sit, I was in it and probs still am haha you need to show your new girl it doesn't bother you.

and yes the best way to do it is to introduce her to your ex, providing shes not being a bitch.