say ur completely single, you understand game, how long does it take you starting tomorrow morning to have a girfriend

Whaaa??


Silly question, but I suppose I will entertain it..

It takes about three hours. But thats IF I meed the right kind of girl for me, where I actually want her to be my girlfriend, and she is equally reciprocive, and then that is only counting "girlfriend" from the time it takes to go from zero to "intimate and kissing, on the sure path to sex." It could easily take a month or two for me to find a girl that gets me that way, sometimes more.

If I really am hellbent on getting the girl as my GF I will never bed her the same day. Usually wait a few days till the next date and then either knock her off her feet, or take it the third day, depending on the girl and the energy.

Even then, after you are doing it more or less regularly, you usually dont consider yourselves a couple until a bit more time has gone by, maybe a couple of weeks. I certainly don't "pop the question." Its so...middleschool. Just wait till it comes up and usually you will both mutually declare it.

Why would you want a gf? And why are you trying to figure out a estimated time for it? Don't rush into things like a relationship man, bad idea.

You shouldn't just presume any girl is suitable as a girlfriend.

Atleast, not if you're as picky as me

Unlike women . . . who seemingly go into a schizophrenic downward emotional spiral when caught "between" boyfriends, this time of peace and tranquility alone should be cherished by any respectable PUA.

Breathe . . . deeeeelicious . . .

well now i'm confused because i was told before on here that bein a pua is not about getting with a lot of girls its about helping ppl get relationships...

i took that as.. u get a g/f

personally i dont want a g/f i just want hook ups, although if i had teh right girl it would be nice, but my whole life i've just been more about hooking up and having fun, not relationsihps .. thats why i've never had a true g/f

PUA is more about helping people communicate with the girls.
Get the Girl you might say

What you do with her after you have her, is her and your business.

I mean; it's not about building relationships, nor getting ONS/SNL (One night stands/ Single night lay)


It's about communicating efficiently with women, and getting into the "game" also known as social interaction. Overcoming the fear of human interaction or getting a more healthy view of women, if you want.

This is a very broad topic, getting a gf can take anywhere from a day to a year.
My longest LTR is five years, hmm, I met her and 2 weeks later we were solid.

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thread moved for posting in the wrong section - this type of question belongs in the newbie questions section. the lounge is more for discussions and questions that are a little more thought out.
And that's retarded. Whoever told you that was imposing their own agenda upon a broader definition of pickup.

Listen man this is the best advice I can give you....dont get a gf until you are head over heals for a women! I mean until you meet a girl that you are 1000% sure you want to be with and wouldnt want any one eles or you will regret it....IMO if you not going to stay with the girl for a long time and you dont see much of a future then whats the point???? you could have used that time to go out and have fun with other women.

I all your asking is how long would it take me to game a girl and ask her to be my gf....I could prob do it in 1-2 weeks If every thing went as planned but that would just be dumb....Id rather get to know a girl first and then make my mind up if I want to be with her.

depends how quickly ull get to know her, might be a week or two, might be a month or a year

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Hmm sounds like your interested in getting one ASAP and that you are a little lonely.. Don't worry, we've all been there.

Its all about perspective. Ive been single over a year and am picky as crap. I haven't been looking to get a g/f not to say that i wouldn't welcome it. You gotta see whats out there and who you mesh with and let the good times roll. It will come in due time!