Guys-

I'm new here on the board but have been slowly picking up bits and pieces of how to be a pua. I'm def not there...hell I'm not half way there. I have actually developed pretty good game when drunk (sad I know) but my sober/day/casual convo game has plenty of room for improvement. With that said, here is my conundrum if you will...

I'm going to college right now and have a class with this girl I think is waaaay cute. We have exchanged eye contact in class and I just think that in general she's way to good looking for me to at least not give it a shot. So I made the effort to talk to her one day after class ended and we carried on for a few minutes while walking to our respective next classes. She had a bright and bubbly personality and was friendly and seemed to enjoy the talk enough.

This exchange was last week and wouldn't you know it I saw her at our campus dance lounge (part bar part dance floor w/ a dj). She was with her crew and I with mine. So after some serious ball searching I finally went over to her and exchanged some pleasantries- I didn't game her but did try to DHV a bit...again I'm still learning. Anyways we shared a dance with each other and she seemed to be having a good time. We weren't really doing too much talking...but I wanted to talk! Anyways she kind of drifted off with her friends and that was that.

Our next class is in a few days...I have got to freakin do something, right? I mean we talked enough before for me to have the will to dance with her (I was sober it was especially hard for me) and even got her to laugh a little bit. So now I feel like this ball is in my court. Again I hardly know this girl and she seems pretty firmly entrenched in her social circle but if I don't do something about it I'm going to be kicking myself.

I've looked at a lot of canned openers and routines on the board and I defintely think I'll use them in the future. But for this girl I think I should be more direct with. Again we have class in a few days...what do I do? I know I have to talk to her but what should I say? Do I play the cocky/funny role? Should I be super direct or use some indirect game material? I'm no expert so any advice is greatly appreciated. I basically need to grow a pair I know but I still want to come off smooth when I do chat her up. Should I ask her what she's doing this weekend? Maybe she wants to hang out? Should I get the number? Is that too forward?

As you can see I still def have some nerves and bad tendencies...like overthinking for starters. But seriously- for those of you who have been succesful how should I play this? I need help but am very willing to give it a shot...I don't want to regret not doing something about it.

-c

Welcome to the boards Castle!

First of all no girl is EVER too good looking for you man! You have to have the mindset that you are the SHIT!, and everyone you see is living in your world your reality.

With that being said, make sure you make some interesting plans for yourself this weekend. Something not a lot of people do, or maybe Just plan to go out to a club or bar.

Initiate the conversation: Remember something fun or funny that happened the last time you were together with her, and use that as an opener of sorts.

EXAMPLE: I met this Dime piece at the bar I work at, got her facebook, and sarged her a little bit online, I said I married and divorced her in my mind, and we had a fun convo about that. So I see her one night when I'm working, and walk up to her and say " A guy walks into a bar and see's his ex-wife" boom good opener.

So you have an idea what your doing this weekend, and you have a good story to remind her of the nice times you had together, now it's a matter of her going with you to take part in the festivities you have going on.

Remember to be C&F, and tell her that she "CAN" come with you to the bar, or she "CAN" go rock climbing. People hang out with you! You don't hangout with them! Everything is on your own terms. The fact that your portraying the image that you don't want or need her, makes her want you more.

She"ll be like, "OH MY, My girlish charm has no effect on this guy! There's somthing different about him" Then before you know it Bitches will like "Castle I want you inside me!!!"

Sorry for the long drunken post, but this shit will help you my man!