The following is the story of how I, a grade 12 guy, went about trying to start a relationship with an extremely hot babe while trying to maintain my pride, it hasn't worked out very well and i find myself frustrated. I would like it if anyone could help me out on what I should do from this point on, or any kind of critisism of how i handled it.

So Ive seen said girl for many years now during weekdays at school (grade 12), but I never really talked to her or really paid attention to her until recently. The week coming up to our semi she expressed alot of interest (at least i perceived it as interest) as in talking to me in the halls (and this is someone i really havent ever talked to). During the dance she flirted with me alot telling me how she was kind of embarassed about it but she loved to admire me from afar (which made sense because I did feel like she was looking at me alot when I wasnt looking because when i looked back over I could see that instantaneous eye mouvement away). She didnt drink before the dance and she grabbed my ass several times but we never hooked up. Later that night I did end up hooking up with one of her best friends (this im still not sure she knows about but i think she does)

I didnt talk to her for a couple days then finally I started to talk to her again and we got along really well again but (and this is where i think I went wrong) she kept telling me she would call me but never did so it would always end up me calling her (and i regret being so impatient because i feel it made me look needy). A couple days later she started asking me about what happened with me and her friend and then later in that conversation she told me she just started dating some new boyfriend. I was a little rattled but it played it pretty "cool" until she eventually told me that she lied about the boyfriend. I felt pretty good about that because i felt that she was just telling me that to make me jealous and she litterally admitted to me she lied about it.

Later that week her friend told me that she met this new boyfriend who i thought didnt exist but apparently does and I was extremely rattled. I asked her about why she lied about lying and she told me first that she wanted to keep it a secret because they were just starting to date and because she wanted to go eat dinner so it was easier for her to just say that then leave.

I jokingly called her a tease because she almost fully admitted she was flirting with me at the semi and that she was interested. This was something that throughout the week of the dance and the week after i was almost willing to bet a million dollars she was interested in dating though she was starting a relationship with another guy. But maybe i was wrong (though im telling you guys i was pretty fucking sure). Unfortunately the more I think aobut it the more it seems possible that I misread her actions.

She hasn't talked to me since but she still looks at me in the halls and smiles (which makes me feel pathetic).

BTW i do consider myself a good PUA until I get in these situations where I go from overconfidence to the dirt wihtin a week.

Right ive read the first paragraph and ive actually got to go out, but i'll tell you what you did wrong first.

YOU GOT WITH HER BEST MATE! wrong! girls talk, especially best friends! Now you've got with her best mate there tends to be a rule amongst girls to back off.

Think about it, i'll read the rest later.

I know that but there was no reason why I shouldnt have been able to I was drunk and Im still relatively sure that she didn't know, but please continue to post I would really like this to work out and i could use all the help i cant get.

I have always been extremely good at playing the first night but am very bad at further play so all help is welcome.

From what you said so far, it seems she definitely has interest in you, and for the most part you played this one pretty well. Just ask her out, dude. You didnt blow yourself out of the water by any stretch of the mind, you are your own worst enemy on this one

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Youre probably right Marlow about that "you are your worst enemy on this one" but the only difficulty there is that she says she has a boyfriend and one of her best friends seconded that. Its also pretty definitave that she isn't making him up from what I hear. This means I might have a hard time just asking her out.

Today I went and talked to her and complimented her scarf and attempted for a little kino which went pretty well but she didn't really return any kind of IOI that I could notice.

I do feel like she tends to try to move herself into my field of vision every time im in the same room or area as her as in move relocate to somewhere that I might be facing (and this was very dramatic and obvious the two weeks ago when she was interested but now I feel I might be fooling myself).

Its really adding to an overall loss of confidence on my part which is something that usually never happens to me. As for ripping her from her boyfriend are there any specific boyfriend killers I can use to this distinct situation where I don't know the guy.

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alright I hadnt talked to her in a couple days almost through deciding it wasnt worth all this work (a very hard decision to make). Then today she came up to me frantically (girly) waving and I played it cool since i had to reach class.

Was gonna frantically (girly) wave (teasing) her later that day as an opener but never found the chance. I might try it tomorrow and see what happens but if there are any experts still out there Im fully open ears.

It sounds like she's definitely interested, I'd say ask her to hang out or something and kino-escalate before you get put in the friend zone.

I'm pretty sure that's where you screwed up. Being drunk isn't a get out of jail for free card. You're still responsible for what you do and people will judge you to some extent even when you're drunk. Get out of the mentality that you can do w/e shit you want when you're drunk.

I understand what youre saying and I do believe that we are all responsible for what we do when we are drunk but the problem is when you are drunk and your judgment is hindered you might not think so.

so much of OP's post was fluff...

you need to learn to cut out the stuff that doesn't matter to us.

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