So, one year ago Ive meet a woman, she's hairdresser. I felt thunder in the moment I saw her... During this time we have meet once in a month in a saloon and I could felt that during those meeting something happened, we were flirting, she were giving me good signs in a conversation or by shy touches. But I didnt go forward because I knew she had a boyfriend..

Maybe 2 months ago she told me she broke up with him, so I asked her to go out, she told she cant as she is meeting with someone, he said he is not her boyfriend but he is meeting with him.

So I gave up, deleted her number, thought our relations are ended. But after 1 month she contacted me with nice comments on webside, I went for a haircut and she gave me really good signs, she sit almost on me while I wanted to show her something on my phone, she touched me few times, she was very flirty and all... I set a meeting with her, to go for a shoping but 3 days before she canceled with obviously fake reason, situation happened 2 weeks later.

So in short... She comes close to me, flirts during the haircut, give me clear signs, we make a plan when and where we are going to go but then before meting she cancels it.

IMO, in optimistic version she is undecided, she want to test me and to see how much I care, she dosent know what she wants.
In pesimistic she knows that I like her and she plays with my feelings.

But It would be weird as we have really good laugh and talk when we meet I dont feel any acting in it. (she is very atractive girl btw)

Can You please explain me what to do ? What are the reasons behind her behaviour ? What should I do ?
I want to write her message and explain what I feel to her, that I really care about her.. Dunno is it a good idea.

Please, post any suggestions, thanks !

ps. sry for my english mistakes

She wants to know what you would do.. basically showing you that you she's done with her bf.. she's ready to move on.. but you will need to try harder because she's implying that there would be competition for the prize! which is her.. WRONG!!!
This kind of situation shouldn't affect you at all!
Okay.. how about the next time this happens.. tell her to get off of you.. and say "Can't be touchin the merchandise.. if you ain't buyin" Or somethin.. but basically priding yourself that you are the prize and she can't just do whatever the hell she wants!

She cancels on you because she knows that you will always call back.. you are available for her disposal! WRONG! Next time.. instead of asking to go somewhere.. TELL HER that you're going somewhere with friends and if she likes.. she could tag along with you.. and if she shows up.. and looks for your friends.. tell her that change of plans.. if she doesn't.. don't bring it up until she does.. when she does bring it up in a conversation.. describe it that you had so much fun... that she'll feel bad she didn't come along..
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That's one of the problems! Show her that you are a MAN!!! you know what you want.. pull the trigger!!! be an ALPHA male! i know it's easier said than done.. which I'm also having problems with.. but it's never too late to start! By showing that you are an ALPHA, a person that knows what he wants, does not make excuse for not getting a woman, shows her that you are a qualified male to mate! but.. just thinking the other way around and having her qualify to you to be your mate.. is an ALPHA.. IMO..

if anyone has anything to say.. or change.. let me know.. since i'm learning as well..

Ok, thanks... Any1 more ?

Do you think it would be good idea to say or write what I feel about her ? That I care about her..

Majishan answered perfectly and NO, you don't tell her how you feel, you do the opposite. That will work much better. As Majishan has answered everything thoroughly there is not a real need to write more.

Remember: You are the prize. She needs to come into YOUR reality and you are not needy.

i know it's hard when you're feeling these emotions that you want to let out.. and just tell her personally how you really feel.. i've been there... and still goin on sometimes... but you need to find an outlet.. to let your feelings out in some other way.. but need to stay in the VAULT... (coz there will be more of this feelings in the future.. until you realize that this is pathetic) meaning that you never show that to her!!!!! this is a weakness.. and also a problem.. and needs to be resolved.. and until then.. you need to find an outlet.. because if you don't.. you will be thinkin about her the whole time.. and will be coming off needy!!!!! (i write lyrics and such.. that's why sometimes.. it sounds emo hip hop)...

GOod luck!