I met this girl the other day and we're going to go out together sometime. I don't think it's a date, it's just casually hanging out. I was asking her what there is to do around here and she offered to take me out with her some night. So how do I use this girl as a pivot to meet other women? Do I let her in on it or do I just go in there and start sarging with her or what? I don't want any hard feelings to arise, because I think she's attracted to me. I'm attracted to her, but I really don't want to date my neighbor. I don't really understand how you can meet chicks and then use them to go out and meet other chicks without offending them. How do you spin it so you can remain friends with the pivot?

All you have to do is tell her what a cool friend she is, carry on pulling friend line on her and tell her about ex girlfriends and ask for her advice when with a girl you like (make something up).
Introduce her as your friend to other friends say "this is my FRIEND Candice" or what ever her name is.
Maybe tell her how much of a man whore you are, but backit up with how you're a loyal friend. Tell her you're a typical guy who just wants to go out and speand time with his friends but you're not interested in a relationship.
If it looks like she is taking any offence then appologise and tell her that you were under the impression you guys were on mutual grounding.

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Peace, Finchy!

Don't "tell" her anything. Go out and have a great time. By the way, ever tell a girl you just met that you want to be "good friends"?

LOL . . . why are women such "opposites"?

I'm attracted to her, but I really don't want to date my neighbor.

Lead the frame, set the stage from the very beginning.

If you don't want to date her, she needs to know that so there are no expectations. You can communicate this verbally, or by your actions, take your pick.

If she is o.k. with this, great, go out with her and have fun. If she is offended or gets an attitude because it's not what SHE wants (typical), to bad for her, she can take it or leave it.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Do I have to bring it up first, though? It seems really presumptuous. All I have is a lot of smiling and eye contact. Shouldn't I just wait until she gives me a solid signal, like, I don't know, she invites me into her place? Or is the idea to do it early in order to prevent myself from flirting with her too much, because I gotta tell you, this is going to be tough!