I met this girl a couple of weeks back who has been texting me quite a bit since. she organized a meet up but then an hour before cancels with a bad excuse? i don't understand why, her texts were appologetic. should i text her today to try to reorganise or wait for her too i was thinking of something like 'sorry u couldnt make it last night, i still had a great night so no problems there, hope yours was alright?' do you think i should do that?

thanks

Man if she gave you a shitty excuse and you get the feeling she's fucking you around, don't let her away with it. You can't let her think you're gonna put up with that crap... right now you don't know if she's that into you or not, so find out. Ask her how she's gonna make it up to you, get some plans going and if she flakes again tell her you're done. Believe me, if a girl flakes more than once it's a pretty clear indication that she isn't into you. Give her another chance, but besides that, leave her be. If she gives you lip, tell her it's her own fault for cancelling and if she really is into you then she can invite herself over. If she comes over, cool. If not, cool - you get to move along.

but she actually made the plans and gave me quite of few ioi's. Should i text her later today?

thanks

Don't send any text messages (I would stay away from them all together), wait for her to contact you. Don't let apologetic text messages fool you, just because she's 'sorry' doesn't mean the excuse was valid. If it's a valid excuse, she will want to make it up to you.

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