| really, i have to say patterns dont work, especially in High School. im graduating next year and i have to say after reading some material on this site and various others, all the routines and patterns seem a little impractical.
im actully 17, earlier years in high school i was a totally nerd. band and video games for me. anyway at that point where i really wanted a girlfriend, i realized that if i wanted some HB's, and not even 10's(high school aint the place to be finding HB10s, HB9's if ur extremely lucky), i would need to shape up. and so over the last years or so ive been building up social value. the main thing in high school is you want people to know who your are and that you're a good person. im not saying you need to become the most popular kid in school, im saying that you need to start getting to know lots of people.
im not saying that you dont have a big group of friends, im just basing this on my own experiences. earlier on i was with the same small group of 4-5 friends everyday, and now practically my whole grade knows who i am, and that im a friendly guy, even some of the younger and older grades.
and by doing this ive found many more opportunities to start up relationships, that are either closers or gates to other prospects. like right now im working on a girl ive known for awhile now (yes its one-itis but im in high school and im not trying to get the noteriety right now to getting a ton of girls, just a girlfriend for the time being) and let me tell you, i havnt been doing any patterns, i havnt hit her with any DVH stories(although ive thought about it), and i dont have some serious plan for any pick-up lines or routines but im still getting loads of IOIs in the process. im just being friendly, nice, and finding common things like music or just joking around.
Its all about getting over AA and just learning what you guys have in common. like i doubt she'd be someone to just brush you away if you tried to be a friend. one little piece of advice, if you know that you'll be yourself and get all nerdy, try to stay away from that part of your life. im not saying completely change who you are , just try not to freak her out with it...i know ive done that a few times.
anyway yeah theres my splurge for the evening. its a long post for my first one but yeah. just look around the forum, find articles about combating AA and being able to have conversations with girls. like LEPRECHAUN said, stick to the basics. just being able to be comfortable around girls and having normal conversations with them, in my opinion, are the most effective methods to being a PUA in high school...that is unless you go for the HB8-9s or the really stuck up kinda girls....you may need to change your game a little but stress to much.
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