Anyone ever been slapped on the back?, i know i have. everyone HERE knows what hes trying to convey when doing this. so why not explain it to the people around you?

Anyone ever thought of this? might sound crazy.

PUA- talking to girls(growing interest in you)
AMOG- haha isnt this cute, hes trying to pick up!!(tryyying, to amog)
PUA- haha, are you girls intelligent?(QUALIFYING + SHOWING YOU WONT GIVE INTO HIS FRAME)**ignore the amog, close in the circle and cut him out if you want**
HBS- yes!!(GIVING INTO YOUR FRAME)(if one says no in a sarcastic way just ignore her)
PUA- well we all noticed him slap my back right?
HB- yeah why?
PUA- well what does it mean when he slaps my back? its not like i know him at all, and its not like hes trying to be nice.
HB- i dono you got me?
PUA- weve all seen the discovery channel, where theres beta males and alpha males.
HB- yess
PUA- well he slapped my back "acting" like an alpha male. but the true reason behind it is he felt like he was losing the attention of the group, in other words he feels like hes the beta male. so he thought slapping my back would get him attention again, talk about try hard?

i think i can fix up the last few sentences of it. just seems like it would be just as easy to explain it rather than AMOGing back.
of course you can just ignore him like stormy "the way of the smoke"

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Well, you know what I think.

But if you're going to respond, I think you're paying him too much attention. Act like the back-slap WAS friendly. Tell the guy he can be your sidekick or comic relief or something, and then get back to work. Just don't let it get to you.

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What is so evil about a back slap? You make it sound as if he spit on you. Yes, some boys are just annoying...BUT...chill. Next time just give him a big hug and squeeze his cheeks. I often squeeze the cheeks of physically affectionate guys. Lets them know that I am welcoming their physical contact. It also always gets a laugh.

If his face is oily you can always just kiss your palm and pat him on his head. I do this a lot if I am not carrying any of those little clean wipes that you cleanse your hands with before you eat. I am a germ phobic. Human skin is disturbingly dangerous when it comes to germs.

hah, yeah you guys are right.
just thinkin outside the box thats all

i like the sidekick thing hah

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