Ok so as you cna tell by post count, im not exactly a great contributer so far, but then, thats proberbly a good thing, as im afc and my advice would be lame! so, again i ask for help

Girl, i really like,really into her, shes not particually a great looker but more we get on so well together,..

Problem: she has a bf - though i really dont think they get on that well
Shes always complaining that he always works no time for her, pays no attention etc etc..

the other day, i complimented her on her change of hair colour said ohh i like your hair bla bla, (is this a bad thing? some people say compliments are?) but i think in this instance it worked well, because she was like "ah thanks, nice of you to notice, ..*name of BF here** hasnt even realised yet." this kinda makes me think shes almost wanting me to say/do something,..im sure you pua dudes would of made more of this, but i just said ah he lives with you, how can he of not noticed etc, trying to give out a bf killer of some kind!

so do you pua's have any advice for me on this? should i just tell her how i feel? i really dont think this guy is right for her, and we seem to get on real well, any advice woul;d be great, sorry for the long post!

It doesn't matter of your post count so much as everyone has life experiences that might qualify them to help.

You can always tell her how you feel and see what happens. If you really want a relationship with her that's your best bet. Still, it's not for you to decide if she should be with him or not. That is up to her.

I know girls that have a history of dating guys that treat them like shit. And guess what they are still dating guys like that. To get a girl like that I'd have to treat her similar because that what she is attracted to on some unusual level.

Pretty much try to escalate things physically and either it will work or it won't. The choice is hers to make. If she wants it she will, or she'll tell you to wait until she gets out of the relationship, or she won't. That's pretty much it.

You have to try and respect their commitment to each other regardless of if you agree with it. Besides there are many more awesome girls out there.

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