If you have not read swinggcats e book i HIGHLY suggest it right now.
After you will start to realize where and what you did wrong in the past to let a woman take the lead from you. you having the lead or being the PRIZE as he says is soo powerfull. basically the book is on frames and has a really good section on role playing(i never thought it could be something really important to do, until now).

example- he was saying he went out to the movies with some friends and a girl went that really liked him, but he didnt like her. the girl started the role playing, saying that her EX BF was in the theatre. she ask him if he wanted to make him jealous, so he started to hold hands, fondle her and what not. eventually they hooked up. what happened here is that the emotions he felt in the role playing game, he felt in real life. the girls got game.

he elaborates more on role playing but i really liked this example and could easily be used when with a girl.

i just wanted to share

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