| Hey everyone,
So I seem to have a knack for attracting some strange women sometimes, and this evening was no exception. I need some insight on this please:
I'll condense this as much as I can:
One day last fall I randomly met this girl working in a mall, just talked a bit, in convo she mentioned she has a bf, so I didnt pursue
Whenever I went to that mall and went by her store I'd go say hi, found out more about her, born in another country, where she went to school, has another job, usual stuff
One day she tells me she lied to me that she isnt actually going to school just working, she says shes going to school soon ... when I asked her why she would lie about it she says I dont know..
my best guess is she wanted to show like she has direction or something
Overall the convo wasnt really going anywhere really, didnt feel much of a connection, so I pretty much forgot about her.
ANYWAYS
Tonight I was meeting up with a friend for late evening food, around 11:30
I walk in and there she was in the same restaurant, she sees me (its been over a month) she is all friendly and shes like ohh come meet my friend
So my friend arrives and we sit at a table close to them
I go meet this friend of hers, its some beta guy, I was expecting a girl, but whatever...
I noticed her phone and commented on how ghetto it was, asked to see it, and I take it back to my table just to mess with her a bit
all I did was send myself a message to jack her number
her: "what are you doing?" me: "oh nothing ... did you send me this?"
and I showed her the message I sent myself
she laughs and shes asks me "do you want my number?"
I laughed and said "whatever" and gave her back her phone and she went back to her table
Oh and on top of that I couldnt remember her name correctly, its a weird foreign one, so she was upset about that ... but still smiling.
A few mins go by, she comes back and gives me a napkin with her name and number, with quite a crude comment with profanity saying how I should remember it this time.
My friend was like what is that about? thinking I got skills or something ...
I'm half watching how her and her guy friend interact, they seemed like they must know each other well or something, as their outing seemed ... reserved.
So she goes out for a smoke, comes back to our table, we chat it up.
she mentions her bf again, this time I tell her I think shes lying.
she's adamant that she has one, we were asking if he's from the same country as her, she says no, and eventually she tells us where hes from but thats it.
Later on, she comes back to me and asks if she can use my phone to call her bf cuz hers had died .... she wanted to put her sim card in mine so this "bf" doesnt see my number... however my phone doesnt take sim cards so that wouldnt have worked
(why didnt she use her friends phone, I dont know)
She tells me she works at a restaurant too and my friend and I should come visit, we say we'll see.
shes says with a big smile, if you give me a good tip I'll give you a lapdance (..say what?)
I played along and said, well youre probably not very good
she says fuck you, punches my arm, and leaves with her friend
my friend says she was still looking at us as she walked past the window outside
So definate IOIs there no doubt .... the thing that was odd, other than the obvious, was she didnt act at all like this at her work, no one else is usually there when I talk to her at work, and she didnt communicate much interest at all back then.
maybe she was drunk tonight.... didnt notice her drinking really, she wasnt red, didnt stumble, or stink like alcohol
My friend that was with me came to some conclusions, he thinks she doesnt have a bf, has very few friends, or may be an escort or a slut
But why would this girl be out with this guy on a saturday evening and not with her bf? and why would she be out with this type of guy?
And when she was acting all this way, her guy friend didnt interact at all, just let it all happen.
I'm thinking I should just take her out, run some more game, and see what happens
For the record, I dont trust this girl one bit. that 6th sense feeling. but that same feeling is telling me she wants to fuck haha
Also, in my past I have missed quite a few opportunities that when I look back would have been blatantly obvious ... but I'm weary about this one even with all my "experience" and studying PUA material ...
any ideas what this girls agenda is?
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