ME: I miss you and wanna see you, but this dumb security guard won't let me in the zoo. Is there any way you can escape?
HB: Do you think you can keep sending me these insulting text messages? I'm gonna turn my stereo on, put on Simple Plan and cut off my wrists.

I think it would be better if you modify these clumsy lines (just imo). It looks a lot better if it seems like you have done it. But keep the idea and make keep it fun.

First off, your girl seems a little crazy, how long have you been sending her this stuff?

Second off, why do you boys think that these insulting messages are funny?
One of the biggest problems in text game is that there's no way to communicate tone. You need to understand that the girls will project a tone onto your message that is likely NOT the tone you intended.

Your message up there? It sounds like you're a jerk. That's coming from my female opinion. It sounds like you're a huge jerk. And I promise you that's what the girl thought too. How long have you been pulling lines like this on this poor girl?

Cinnamon

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Ok let me lay this shit down how it is.

I take it this is the same girl who flaked on you in the other thread.

Ok you're right to punish her bad behaviour but you way of going about it is wrong.

She flaked on you and she made up some bullshit excuse, we laid down that shit bare, and now your pissed so you're hitting out. And it makes you feel that little bit better, for what a couple of seconds?

This is why what you're doing is wrong. Although you're punishing her, she doesn't actually know it. She still thinks she got away with her flaking on you and now she is confused because you're acting like a prick. Cinnamon has testified to this, btw great having you here cinnamon.

Here's what you should have done. You should have calmly and ascertively, said to her, 'listen I know yer bullshitting me with that excuse and I don't appreciate being taking for a ride. When you decide to stop behaving so childishlessly you know where I'm at.'

Then you should completely freeze her out and flip her jealously switch by paying attention the other girls.

At the minute you're behaving like an AFC and cussing her to shit. Been there, done that ,doesn't work.

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Thanks Tweeby, I wasn't aware of this background information.

You need clear, open lines of communication here. If she flaked on you, you need to tell her FLAT OUT that you find that unacceptable. If you project yourself as a confidant person who knows what he wants women will be attracted to you.

Trust me, I know, it worked on me. My boy and I would not be together as long as we have without clear, open communication and clear boundaries. If either of us push a boundary, we stop, tell the other and things stop. We communicate, we listen and we act on what is communicated.

Right now you're acting like a jerk. You're acting like a spoiled brat who didn't get what he wanted and now you're gonna sulk and pout and be mean to everyone in your path.

Stop It.
Grow Up.
Communicate.

Cinnamon

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Tone is so important! A girl I text actually sent me this line about the zoo, but I know her, she sends me dirty jokes and I neg her all the time, its just fun and we both know it. Be careful who you send any joke to by text or e-mail, its dangerous...

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I prefer the bitch txt

Me (txt) Ya know it feels so good to know that I have the power to make you flip your phone open at will. That's right you're my bitch. You can close it now I'm done with you.

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