Everyone has some attritbute they can use to their advantage, mine is my eyes, but the question is how????? whenever a girl comments on them I get lost on what to say next... HELP!!!!

Also how can I bring them to her attention, without saying look into my eyes or do you like my eyes???? (seems very AFC!!!!)

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whenever she comments you on your eyes. nag her. tease her, be cock/funny, say something like "my eyes are better thatn yours" or.."thnaks, i get that a lot"..or " yea i know, im watching you with them"...you get the point...

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in this case should you NOT neg?
and reward her for bringing up how nice your eyes are?

but strong eye contact would get their attention to your eyes not a problem

you shouldn't be looking to show off your eyes. in fact, you shouldn't be looking to show off anything. that is fucking needy dogg. you know you have nice eyes; you don't need other people to tell you so. you bringing it up and shit is a major
dlv. ==> bad

if someone, not just a girl, compliments you, you don't have to be all macho and shit. "thanks" will do.

be congruent with who you are: love yourself. that is the most important thing you'll learn in your journey. it all comes down to how comfortable you are with yourself. ==> good

the answers are not on online forums and shit. you have them yourself. what? I'll repeat. the answers are all in you. if I told you to say: "yeah, they're sexy aren't they?", sure you'll have a clever line, but that's it -- just a line. will you have improved yourself? that is you using lines other people have made. that is you acting as someone else.

---- Snatch

Ok lets start by making one thing very clear. DONT NEG, TEASE, LAUGH or anything like that. She gave you a compliment, she showed interest in you so do you really want to neg her (a push)? No, you want to reward her for helping your interaction escelate.
The best thing to do without being to fancy is a simple "thankyou" with a smile and a touch on the arm. Alternatives could be "thankyou, your just so cute your like my little sister" and then put an arm round her (classic little sister routine). Tbh it doesnt matter what you say, you want to reward her for doing something you like and that re-enforces her liking you.
If your fimilar with the push pull idea when you recive a compliment you want to pull, kino/compliment/etc etc.

As for using your eyes, granny snatcher has things slightly off with saying you shouldnt be showing off but still makes a good point. You dont want to be making a point of having nice eyes, if they are that good girls will notice. HOWEVER, you should be using them to your advantage! Non-verbal things that draw attention to them are great, i also have very attractive eyes and therefore i use lots of eye contact. If there is a slight pause i may just look deep into the womens eyes and possible do a little triangle gazing (right eye, left eye, lips, right eye). This isnt showing off, this is just using something good about you to its full advantage. Showing off is having to say something about it, using it well is letting her notice it herself.

Hope that helps

I have a good solution for this... I met a HB8 in a bar one night and she totally gamed me with this routine... She looked into my eyes, and within 5 minutes... told me what my birthday was. I had never met this chick in my life, but she guessed my birthday by looking into my eyes and asking a few simple questions. Im trying to perfect this routine, and I must admit... its very difficult. Your mind makes your pupils dialate and retract subconciously with different feelings and emotions. Just google (or youtube) "reading eyes" and theres tons of stuff online about this subject. This is such an important subject, you can tell when people are lying, how they are feeling, even what they are thinking sometimes just by reading their eyes. I would definetly try this on your friends before using it in the field, but once perfected... is a GREAT tool. This will not only MAKE them focus on your eyes, but your also DHV, and you can throw some kino in there while your doing this. GOOD LUCK! I hope this helps!

you're going to have to elaborate on this for me mate. first you say that showing off is a good thing, then you advise against doing it. kind of confusing.

this is the way I see it: showing off is a deliberate and uncalled for display of a trait. it is a pretentious display, perhaps an ostentatious one. this is a very unattractive thing. what it conveys is that one needs the attention and the approval of others, and that one isn't confident enough in themselves to just live. so, one craves attention. you were however, correct in saying that this doesn't allow others to see and notice these characteristics for themselves, and thus appreciate them more. instead, what it does is make the person look like a jerk.

thus, you don't want to be showing off; you want to live life the best way that you can.

--- Snatch

ok i got one to get her to look at your eyes
duhhhh
just look at her an be like wow you have amazing eyes she will look directly aat your an be like omg you do too

case closed done

then be like aww thanks i get that hear an there but im a lil excited to hear it from you



(that should help you out a little)

Or, if someone complements you on a part of your body, you could just say "Mm, true." like Lemmy from Motorhead.

Best said as if you're having a deep conversation and someone's made a point against your view that you nevertheless have to accept.

To get her to look at your eyes, do the lieing routine. Ya know the one were you spot there lie by noticing eye variation. But get really close to her and stare deep into her eyes. after its done, she will comment on them if there anything special.

As for what to say when she comments on them? How about..

HBS: You have the most amazing eyes.
YOU: I know, you can lick them if you want.

LOL. look if she is commenting on your eyes, sounds like she is ready to be more than friends count the IOI's and begin steps to get you sexy time on.

lick my eyes????? cool I like it thanks

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