I finally tried my first opener. It was kind of lame, since she was an HB5 if she was lucky and it was at the Hardee's drive thru, but there was no one behind me, So I ran the opener over and over in my head and was nervously waiting for her while I acted like I was checking my vm.... so after she handed me my food I said, "Excuse me, I don't want to hold u up, but I need a womans opinion. Is kissing cheating?" to which she promptly replied yes. So I gave her the "What if your girl kisses another girl while you're at the bar?" to which she then said no, and I sort of agreed with her, but didn't know where to go next. It seemed like it happened to quick for me to ask for her number, but what if continued the thread and I'd said that my friends girl had done that multiple times and he was thinking about breaking up with her over it...?? Should I have busted on her for switching sides..? and how do I get from that to a phone number..? I know I'm totally green at this but I could use some practical advice... =) I said thanks and ejected and she was kind of wierd but not offended at all... With some guidance I think I could get good... and create an great new socail lifestyle... Any words of wisdom??

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Well first off, very good work on your first attempt. The drive-thru is nice because it puts a real time constraint on the conversation. What you did is a good start to developing rapport with her. Personally I wouldn't have asked for her number after that brief exchange. The good news is you know where she works, you have access to her, so anytime you want to build on that rapport just go out for some fast food.

Ok… so I did the first part of the mission. I went showered, shaved, told myself I was the shit and then went to the mall to approach and open 3 women. It didn’t work out exactly right but I came home totally stoked, cause I’d been telling myself I was gonna do if for a week now… So I went to the book store and bought Styles new book… and then went looking for my first target. I decided to get a drink at the food court and there was an HB8 working a dead counter at the phillysteak place. (Fast food worked yesterday… She was way, way younger than me but I thought I’d just open her anyways… When I approached she was flipping her spatulas and I tried to be cute and funny and said “Practice makes perfect” She didn’t respond so I just placed an order and then after I got a straw for my drink I walked back over – My memorized opener was “Is kissing cheating” but she was a hippie girl so I didn’t think she’d like it. So I just said “You sure look bored” and all of a sudden she brightened up and started talking about how she’d drawn out her new tattoo and started digging in her pocket for the drawing… She handed it to me and it was a sun moon with CANCER written at the bottom so I asked her if it was her sign and then she got even more excited and then pulled out her phone and showed me a picture… we actually started having a genuine conversation about a concert she’d gone to and even though I was totally nervous I kept it rolling until my food was done but I was too scared to keep it going I did ask for her name . I thought about the “Do you believe in ESP?” guess a number routine but wasn’t sure if it would fly although I’ve pretty much internalized it… So that’s approach one… two more to go… If I’d had some more developed skills I think I could have definitely number closed her…


I went to the bookstore to drink my drink and read a little… after sitting for a while this HB8 came and sat down a couple of tables away… I acted like I didn’t see her gathered my stuff and started to walk past her… I did a great over the shoulder “Excuse me but I’ve had this song stuck in my head all day…” I’ve been using the remake “u spin me right round” and asking who does the new version… although girls never seem to know the answer… so she said she didn’t know and then I said “I’ve had that song stuck in my head since I heard it on the radio at 8 this morning” and as she was saying “I hate it when a song gets stuck in your head.” I was getting scared… I said thanks as she was talking and ejected… =(


Approach three was the woman in the jewelry store. They had ear clasps and I asked her if it was a piercing or just a clip. She told me. I asked the price. She said whatever’s on there and so I walked back over to the rack… Since we were the only ones there I tried to be cute and funny and said “Are you always busy like this?” to which she replied only during the week… It was really pretty lame and she was just an HB6

I also tried to open an HB6 at the cologne counter and asked her which she liked… my usual or this other stuff and she said the other stuff and she showed me where it was and then it got awkward cause I think she wanted me to buy something… so I said I was just shopping and then started to eject but then asked her name as she was walking away and she gave it to me… it was kind of off-handish… like it was so I could ask for her next time or something…

I also opened an employee at Walmart this morning… she was an HB7 and I used the ‘I’ve got this song stuck in my head” but I used a new song that really was stuck in my head and she didn’t know the answer so it was kind of awkward and then I thanked her anyways and ejected… How should I keep the conversation going… should I go into a routine (Do u believe in ESP?) BTW…Does that really work in day game…? or should I use a second opener question… like “really quick before I go… I have a friend who’s getting twin dogs… blah, blah.. or “Do you think that kissing is cheating?”

Also I was told ejecting was ok for this mission so I hope that I didn’t f up too much by jumping out… but 2 out of the 4 actually wanted to talk… and I’m sure the other two would have if I’d been more solid in my game…





Mission 2 states…


Memorize a neg. (I was thinking) "Has anyone ever told you that your nose wiggles when you talk?" “No, it’s cute..”

Do the same thing I did yesterday (shower, shave, tell yourself your the shit). Go to another social venue, or the same one if you want, it doesn’t matter.

Smile.

Open 3 more women and incorporate your neg into the conversation. Then you can either eject or continue the conversation. Your choice... but by now I'm hoping you make the latter decision to stick with it

How am I supposed to continue the converstation.. .with a routine?? or the second opener and should I number close or eject after the neg?????

Should I neg? since I’m talking to HB7s and 8’s or maybe false disqualify… like I could have said with the counter girl “Oh you’re a cancer we’d never get along!!” or should I just go with the neg above..? Am I chickening out by approaching girls that are working and just settling for daygame single sets… I felt like a million bucks when I came back from the mall and really want to get out and do mission 2 so any advice would be helpful… Sorry if this is too long… but I DID THE FUCKING MISSION!!!!!! Maybe there is a chance for me to share my charming self with all the wonderful women of the world…