Dear people,

We often talk about the techniques we have to use when we want to approach women.
But in my experience I notice that this is mostly about seducing a woman “for the night”.
But I work as a journalist, and one day I made an article about a charity and there was a beautiful girl a 10, but se is so social engaged and nice, that the negs and all dhv just don’t work.
But I am genuine in love with her; I just can’t stop thinking about her.
So I am planning to call her (I already have her number for professional reasons, and I already had casual and fun conversations with her).
But none of the techniques work, because she is not being approached due to her work.
Help me out this one please
My regards

hey man i'm in the same boat, except i'm not in work, but i'm in an organization for a really good cause that everyone volunteers for. so its a similar situation, its not what i would call the pick up setting, its more formal, yet informal, but its hard to figure out how to approach the girl situation.

everyone on this board is gunna tell you that you have oneitis, but disregard that, id say make a move outside of work somehow, ask her to luch, or give her a call sometime

Women are women PERIOD.

All you've written so far is your belief that a "game" won't work on her. . . Well, I bet you that it can . . . and it will.

You've already negged yourself by making her seem to be some crazy assed robo-woman who is untouchable by anything other than some super game. This is totally untrue. Share some more about this situation and let's see if we can work through this one. What type of conversations have you had with her? How did you meet? What does she do? Etc . . . more information needed . .

I disagree about the use of our game for "ONS". A long term relationship is really nothing but many "ONS's" linked together. Once you drop game, you also drop the girl. I completely, totally, utterly believe this.

i said oneitits, where ppl say u are thinking about this girl too much

ONS im guessing is one nite stand?

what if theres like 3 girls you want to get with and theyre friends, how would u game that, game all at the same time.. or game one specifically? but if you gamed that one specifiaclly and you had her, how would her freinds feel? would it be over for any chances with them? or would it better ur chances?

slyguy, First off with your advice to the OP, you're right but you need to be very careful. Because both of you met these ladies in non-sexually charged situations like bars, clubs, parties, etc . . . you're already one foot into the LJBF's zone. So a casual, "let's meet for lunch" is really just one step further in that direction.

Even if you wanted a three-some, this game begins linearly. Women typically don't like to think that they are receiving 50% attention.(In your case 33%) You can be flirty with all but you need to set your target and believe 100% that she's your target for now.

And when you get that one girl, you are basically done with her friends. Sure you could work it(tough) but ask yourself why amongst 1,000's of girls you are focused on 3 who happen to be friends.

Once you get one, you could lead her into having 3-some with others but typically, it won't be with one of her friends. (If so, she would lead YOU into it)

its just how i met them. thats why theres three. theyve become friends thru the group, but we also party together, and have had a couple socials together. its alwasy the three of them tho, so its hard to pick just one target, espeically if i end up gettin rejected from it, i have my eye one one, but i'm either getting hot and cold vibes, or i'm just totally misreading and hse doesnt want me

Dude, reach down between your crotch. Feel for it . . . feel for it . . . THERE! You have BALLS! You're a man. You don't pick em' because you think she likes you a bit or a little bit more or because you think she's giving you IOI's. You pick the one who is HOT and gives you a boner!

Then you CREATE IOI's. You create attraction. This is the beginning and this is the foundation of the game. Until you are able to do this mentally, don't even bother. You have the power to do this. That is what our game is all about.