After spending a few months on this forum and reading a number of very helpful posts, I think i finally made sense about a situation that I was in when I was back in high school.

From the first day I was in class with this HB7, she was practically throwing herself at me. We used to get along great, and she was very fun to be around. Anywhere I went, she would make some excuse to follow, and I kind of knew she was interested in me. However, at the time mainly because of me having fears of rejection, i pussied out and never kicked it into caveman gear. After a couple of months, suddenly one day, i noticed a huge difference in her, not only did she stop laughing at my jokes, stop flirting with me, stop hanging around with me, but I actually felt a bit of animus towards me from her.

And it actually continues, despite me not seeing her for often months at a time(last time i saw her was new years), i still pick up pissed off vibes from her.

Today for some reason or another, I was thinking about it and realised. She is pissed off at me, for never taking the next step, for never fucking her silly and this must have damaged her self esteem, and not only did this make her feel worse about herself, but she ended up actually pissed off at me.

Up until now, i was pissed off with myself that I had lost her company, (and to make matters worse is that she is now an HB9) for what i put down to an "unknown reason", but now i've realised what happened, i feel better for it and I am definately never going to let it happen again.

Just thought I'd share that, so no-one else makes the same rookie error.

Good read. Ever thought of flirting with her now?
I mean, if its her self asteem that you damaged by not "Fucking her silly". then what would make her happier than the guy that regected her (the one that got away) Wanting to be with her?

here is a small chance she will blow you of (game or not) to replicate what you did to her and get a touch of payback. But you might still get to be friends after you let her do that to you.

But who knows right? Its always worth a try if your still in touch.

Even though i know its a natural response from her, and that i fucked up, im put off by her now. It's also like she is a different person completely now as well, although im sure i could still have a good time with her. Next time i see her, i definately will game her though, more as a training exercise than anything else!