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| null | PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 9:05 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Feb 21, 2009 8:06 pm Posts: 2 | | Well I only opened 2 sets last night. I guess the results were ok, but not good.
In the first set while running my routine I was asked by a HB (6-7) 'are you trying to pickup?'. She asked this in a very friendly mannor.
Was this a shit test?
I simple replied with 'no' although I know I could have said something better and from that it kind of through me off my game.
In the second set I neg opened the target, it worked pretty well because she was confussed and then as she got it and laughed and smilled. After this another HB who told me her age was 30 (I didnt ask) wouldnt leave me alone and there was no way to take control of the set because the music was so fucking loud. I had no wings to save me from her.
What would have been the best thing to do in this situation?
By the end of the night I did get a number but not really in the conventional way. I was dancing with a few of my buddies on the floor and a HB who knows my friend came up and talked to him. Anyway she then started talking and dancing with me. I gave her a cuddly and high 5 etc
I didnt run any game on her because I thought my buddy was trying to get her (I didnt know he knew her and only this found out latter) so I kind of flicked her off. Anyway on the way home my buddy gets some text messages from her saying she thinks im hot and he gives me her number.
Because I didnt even really talk to her and get to Male to Female Attract I dont know if I even like her appart from her looks.
What should I do with her number? I want to see her again to see if I like past her looks but it would be pretty awkward doing a date type thing if we found out we didnt get along. If I asked her to come out with her friends I would be tempted to run game on them also as they were also hot but I would feel guilty if I went home (so to speek) with one of them and not her.
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| dilequeno | PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 9:33 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Jan 24, 2009 12:15 am Posts: 77 | | well if you got a number, you should use it! it sounds like a great practice to me! even if you don't like her much, you dont HAVE to go further with her but you can work on routines, stories, compliance tests... many things. you can also choose to be friend with her, and potentially meet her girl friends who you can run game on. there are many possibilities... i think my problem is thinking too much, overanalysing things. yours might be being too ethical, too nice... actually, when you start sarging, i think it's good to get numbers from girls you don't feel very attracted to, because you can train on them peacefully.
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| Fin | PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 9:36 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Mar 21, 2008 7:21 pm Posts: 1618 | | 1. I go direct when someone asks me if I'm hitting on them... "yes, yes I am"
But hey that's just me.
And I think it probably was a shit test.
2. The other hb was hitting on you, in that case try engaging the whole set, jelousy works wonders when you are "outnumbered" so to speak.
As far as cockblocking goes, I prefer preventions to deterents, the only other viable way would be to leave the venue with your target.
3. Call her, meet up for something small, make it clear to her that you want to see if "dating" is right for you to, seeing as you know so little about her, you want to find 15 minutes where you CAN know more about her.
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| null | PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 7:05 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Feb 21, 2009 8:06 pm Posts: 2 |
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| Anomaly | PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 8:43 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Feb 23, 2009 8:32 am Posts: 7 | | If a girl asks you if you're trying to pick up, you could try C&F and say, "what do you mean, trying?" in a cheeky way.
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