how not to fall in the friend trap?



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PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 3:45 pm 
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how do you not fall in the friend trap when you are dating a girl?


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 5:15 pm 
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If you're dating her and you don't want to be put into the friend zone, what
is it that is making you ask this question...

Something is going on that made you ask this, what is it?

Is she not sleeping with you no more?
Is she talking to you about her "other" problems?

What is ACTUALLY going on that is making you ask this?

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 20, 2009 10:09 am 
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don't talk to her like a friend.

avoid talking about her emotions unless she EARNS it.
flirt with her.
use sexual innuendos PLAYFULLY

have value


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 7:52 am 
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Ah yes. This happened to me with my first girlfriend near the end of middle school. I think. It was a long time ago. After about 3 weeks of "going out" as bf/gf she told me she only saw me as a friend.

This happened to me because I was anything but sexual with her. Continue framing yourself as a lover, as sexy, and as a masculine man. As long as you don't let yourself become another one of her girlfriends, but instead pigeonholing yourself into the "lover" category, you should be fine.


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