So this is sort of an update from HB at work w/ BF
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update:
this is the sunday after everything happen. she finally calls me and wants to talk about what happen. earlier in the week, she acted like nothing happen, even when i told her we should talk, she told me that she didnt have anything to say. so i ask her whatsup and she tells me how the night before one of her bestfriends tried to feel up on her and how she thought of what happen with us. i let her know that i wanted to talk before because im not the type to play games. she says she gets it now and that she respects me so much more for not doing anything with her. so i tell her that the casual flirting we used to do was ok because thats how our friendship started but she crossed the line that night. we both agreed that we cant forget what happen, but lets just stay friends, if anything better friends now that we understood each other.*
note* i still feel a little short changed. i still dont understand why she did what she did unless she has some feelings for me right? all she said was that she doesnt know why she did it. anyways...
fast forwards to Valentines.
I was able to get a good deal on flowers, two real nice bouquets for 40. one bouquet was gonna be 30 so i figured what the hell. i got a set for HB at work; lillies her favorite flowers, which she mentioned one time. the other set was for my valentines date that night. so at work i made sure she was gonna be working and the whole week prior, she kept asking if we were going to be work valentines, since we'd be seeing each other for half the day. i said, i still gotta think it over but not in an assholish way. the whole day we both kept up conversation with high energy and casual flirting like we always have. she asked me again if i was her valentines and i said i dont think your bf would like that. so she just said ok fine! somewhat giving up with that thought. thats when the delivery woman came and dropped off a package for her. wonder who it could be. on the note i put "Just so you know, I did have fun that night. happy valentines" as soon as she read it she screamed and knew who it was from. She had asked me before, "just let me know, did you have fun that night cause if you say no, then i wont do it ever again." i just said i dont know in response. So for the rest of the day she was smiling from ear to ear asking me if she could tell everyone because she cant keep it in. I said she shouldnt.
I had a party at my house that night and got drunk. it was around 3oclock i texted her saying that we should talk in the morning. I had some stuff to tell her bout the party but in the morning i txted her
me: i drunk txted you again. sry.
hb: (she told me b4 my drunk txts are cute) hehe, dont be sry, how was your party
me: it was ok. how was your valentines
hb: it was ok.
me: just ok? why not amazing?
hb: because my boyfriend was being mean =(
against all reason, i decided to try a BF destroyer, just to see if it really works.
me: sounds like he cant help it. its not that he doesnt love you, he probably loves you too much and cant control himself. his previous relationships were probably not good, so now that hes with the best girl hes ever had, he doesnt know how to handle it.
hb: why are you so amazing?
me: cause you amaze me =]
thats how the convo ended. ive been doing better, as i think i had oneitis before, but not anymore. i just want advice to follow up on the bf destroyer now because if she does break up with him, i see it as a great accomplishment getting with this girl because she has wifey potential, she just needs a little work.
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