I've been trying to find a cougar for an LTR but whenever I meet one they're either married or say "You're just a baby." (I'm 19) Where's the best place to meet single older women?

You've got to learn to use the "you're just a baby" line to your advantage. I just exited a relationship with an older woman and on the night I met her and we went back to her place, my friends who happened to be there heard the "You're just a baby" line and thought I was done for. If you can show them that, even given the age/experience gap you're an Alpha, they'll take your home or vice-versa. And, I tend to think cougars just want some, to be honest. They should be easier in a lot of circumstances. But, acknowledge that some older women will put up that age shield whenever they can.

Oh, and why are you so set on a LTR? Do you indicate this as well?

I want to meet cougars too, but I dont know where, also

and beware, some of them are just straight up BITCHES
yesterday in a party I went to the bar at a certain time, I asked for beer and this 'cougar' who was sitting by there told me they were off of it
strange thing is that she was being nice, its like she opened me
I had a slip of her beer and she started "damn, you must be really young, I must be like 10 years older than you"
"well, how old do you think I am?"
"ahmm 21"
"whoa you got it, are you 31? you dont look 30 at all"
"yes"
as I was talking to her she said "why don't you go after some fifteens, theres a lot of them around here"
"well what would I want with some 15 years old?"
"sex, isnt all you want?" something like that
"not at all, it already got old"
and suddenly she started attacking me, saying that I was probably virgin
I just ironically answered "yeah, sure"
funny thing she tried to bring a friend to AMOG me, "hey como here, he is a virgin!"
the idiot put a stupid smile in his face, probably thinking I was some nerd "hah are you a virgin?!"
I put a serious face, look at his's and said "yes, sure, I am" and instantly amoged the son of a bitch
then I went to the girl and said "hey, I not saying this to win your simpathy, but Im long way far from this kind of shit, if you wanna act this way, then have a good night there, alone, bye"



ok, ok, long story, but it feels really bad being attacked for no reason

and the point is, cougars will always shit test everybody knows, but beware some of them may go from shit tests to complete bitch on you and it will be an emotional harass

Chris- I just like LTRs. I don't know why. I've haven't gotten very far on potential cougars. I'm alright talking to older women (or older men, for that matter) but when I try to make it sexual she starts freaking out. Plus I live in a University town so it's mostly young people.

I'm in the same situation. I'm 20, university town, and am interested in older women. What is it before if it's not sexual?

And, I just asked about the LTR because to me it seems like those seeking an LTR are often very needy, or have a habit of getting oneitis.

It's like getting caught in the friend zone, except worse because she doesn't even see you as a friend.

Guys whats LRT stand for? First time I seen that. And noone exactly says where to meet cougars, i guess clubs and bars right? like cougar bars? thats the only place i can think of.

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