Ok heRe is the deal....I met a 9 giRl at the club, I appRoached, got heR numbeR and danced with heR the whole night. Then I hung out with heR the next weekend fRiday and satuRday....at the same club...she was totally into me....she texted to me usually fiRst.....I teased heR a lot....not needy at all..she always hinted me with comments of how i'll show heR how to do stuff .I asked heR out foR satuRday night on valentines day.....She said yea....I called heR on thuRsday to confiRm and she said yea...oooo bowling funnn!...but then she kind of cut me down and said shell call me lateR oR shell text me....I was like cool.....SatuRday night came and she neveR texted oR called me...so I was like fuck it she flaked on me...i'll kick it with fRiends instead....lateR that night I texted heR...saying what shes doing.....she neveR Responds....so the next day (sunday night) I text heR again what shes doing with a little tease...doesn't Respond so 15 minutes lateR I send a text saying soRRy about sat. the night befoRe I left my phone in my fRiends caR and I didn't get it till sat night...and she hasn't texted back

So my questions aRe...Did she stood me up by not hitting me up like she said?....oR did I stood heR up because the guy always has to call them and she'd figuRed I'll call heR since I was the one with the date idea?.......what should I do at this point?....I'm thinking of just waiting till thuRsday afteRnoon to call heR (today is Sunday night)...if she doesn't answeR i'll move on but if she does its on......any advice???????

stop capitalizing your "R"s It's annoying.

Flaking really does suck. You should have a multitiude of woman as back-ups. However, with that much information, I can only say that she either didn't feel the comfort from you, she met another guy, or she is telling the truth.

ok so what should I do...call heR like I planned?

dude sry...shes not worth it, dont chase her....member plenty of fish in the see..everytime i go ot the club i find another crush usually if i go on saturday ill get over her by tuesday....

.I was like cool.....SatuRday night came and she neveR texted oR called me...

Hint #1

lateR that night I texted heR...saying what shes doing.....she neveR Responds....

If a girl stands you up, calling or texting her to 'see what she is doing' is the LAST thing you should do.

Hint #2

the next day (sunday night) I text heR again what shes doing with a little tease

Teasing or not, you are now coming across as needy.

what should I do at this point?....I'm thinking of just waiting till thuRsday afteRnoon to call heR (today is Sunday night)...if she doesn't answeR i'll move on but if she does its on......any advice???????

What you should do is forget about this girl and move on. Saturday night should have been your first (and only) hint that she has no interest in seeing you again. If she would have at least called to reschedule, it might have been worth the effort. But, standing you up is disrespectful and shouldn't be tolerated.

Trying to get in touch with her after what happened Saturday is communicating that it's o.k. to stand you up. Please tell me that's not the case sir.

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thanks 4 tha advice...yea i did fuck up.......im only 19 so its cool....I won't call....the only thing is that I know that I will see her again at the same club soon because its the only teen club there is...so how should I act...I'm thinking of just ignoRing and let heR tRy to tease me

My recommendation, don't go to the club for a while, not until you have this girl out of your head because those AFC tendencies will start to resurface if you see her. Instead, focus on meeting a few other girls (to get your mind off her) first, then reappear on the club scene once she is out of your system (with a girl in tow preferably).


FYI...

You can't 'act' a certain way because girls can see right through the facade. You mindset should be one of indifference when dealing with women, ESPECIALLY if they start playing their childish games for attention.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene