| i know its long, but i felt like i should put in all the detail so you know what happened. and so you can help.
ok i have a history with this girl:
i accidentally gamed her last march as an afc
she was my first kiss and one-itis but im over it
we hooked up for about two weeks
things went sexual
all my afc game killed the whole relationship
made some pretty bad afc mistakes like writing a stupid afc letter when she
clearly wasnt interested anymore
we stayed in contact online (barely) for the next few months on and off
now im pUA (in training)
her history:
the whole time i was dating her she was one-itis over her ex who cold-dumped her.
i was her rebound
while she was gone from my life she found another guy, got another one-itis over him. almost married him. it didnt work out. apparently she went to one of his hockey games and kneed him in the stomach after an argument with him.
she hasnt seen him for appx 1.5 months. but according to her shes on "good terms" with him. haha. all she does is call him and talk to him on the phone.
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anyways recently shes been calling me like once in two weeks. wanting someone to hang out with (this i assumed). she actually came to my work one time RANDOMLY to "say hi." wierd.
turns out shes one-itis over this guy pretty bad and cant come to the realization that its really over. i assume hes playing mind games with her.
she calls me today i dont pick up. i call her back 10 min later. turns out she DOES wanna hang out (intuition)
GL: hey (name)
HB: hey! what are you doing?
GL: im heading over to starbucks, i was going to meet a friend but they canceld on me (that was a lie)
HB: really which one? from where? (ioiisss)
GL: yea so meet me there
HB: OK! Bethere in 10.
GL: ok im almost there
she gets there before me
calls me as im pulling up.
HB: hey where you at?
GL: be there in like 3 sec
HB: 3 sec
GL: yea 4 sec
HB: haha 4 sec, ok ill be inside
GL: ok peace.
huge smile on my face (she hasnt seen me in my peacock im lovin it)
commonality: i highlighted my hair recently, she dyed hers bright orange red (from brunette) and she takes pride in her new hair color ""everyone says my hair color matches omgomgomg blablablablablalba""
immediatlely walk up to her and hug her from behind (she already saw me walk in)
i forget what we were talking about but it was funny and she laughed a couple times.
you have to understand even though she is a seven she acts like a 9ish. bitchy. (also im coming in with lower value since i screwed up in the past) so i negged the shit out of her. no worries NOTHING rude, it was all cocky funny and she either laughed or hit me playfully.
ex: did you dye the hair yourself?
oh it matches your shirt (it was bright orange)
you look like a pumpkin or something now SMILE
the lint neg: you have something in your hair pull out my set up lint and put it in her hand. eww whyd you put it in my hand, playfully. hits me.
various other situational negs throughought the night (made three venue changes) she playfully hit me like appx 75 times the whole night.
ok starbucks.
ran random conversational openers on her to have conversations. got her to think about it. stuff like the who do you think lies more, and jealous girlfriend.
also had my wing NOTION call me while i was there and she was talking to me.
wing:blablabla20 sec
Me:blablabla20 sec
OBNOXIOUS PHONE CONVO
ME(really loud): omg are you serious? that girl is crazy? really? you should dump her or something. alright see you later.
(this let me use the jealous girfriend)
i was almost completely ignoring her throughout the convo with my wing she kept trying to get my attention asking about it (it was really funnY to me)
anyway i used the good liar routine/game
GL:"if you lose your coming to the movies with me"
HB"ok"
run it, she won,
GL: "your a good liar, now i know not to trust you, but your still coming with me to the movies with me Smile
hB: ok, but i have to get it through with my mom
we bounce to her house (we were both on our own cars)
i talk to her mom while sitting in one of those massage chairs which HB turns on for me after i show interest in the machine.
throw a few more negs while MOSTly talking to her mom.
about 10 minutes of this.
GL: ok i gotta go. You coming with
tells her mom about the movies and she lets her go.
i walk to the door
HB: why you leaving already? what times the movie?
GL: i dont know
HB: lets go check online
takes me upstairs to a guest/computer room'
look up the showtimes
GL: nice seeing you again mrs (name)
GL: hey lets take your car since your coming back here anyway.
HB: ok
bounce to movies. we were watching "hes just not that into you"
cocky funny convo with her during the commercials. shes laughing quite a bit. (enjoying herself)
during the movie her body language is turned toward me so i reward her by kino escalating. slight touch arm on her arm on arm rest. arms touching. she hits me. grabs my face and looks at me gestures for me to smile (she likes my smile) grab her hand suttle like (it was expected there was a tension in the air to do it) squeeze twice (to see if she squeezes back) she doesnt, but she doesnt take it away. i hold it for 10 sec then drop it.
during the movie she leans into me many times and turn my body language toward her when she does it(not every time, and there are delays). when she leans away i turn my body language away and lean away.
at one point she suttles hints
HB: you like how my hair smells
GL: yea
i smell her hair
then later i did that a couple more times, while kino escalating
at one point i gently traced her ear with my lips through her hair. she didnt pull away.
at one point in the movie i made a short comment at the "wrong thing" where the guy tells his wife he slept with someone else. she froze me out cuz she didnt like it (i know how it feels blablablabla)(how do you think i felt BITCH). body language turned colllld away from me. i kept my cool though. unaffected. went to the bathroom for 15 min. called Notion, my wing got a couple tips.
body language away from her till she leaned back in again and explained to me what i missed in the movie(i didnt ask her)
so i reward by bodylanguaging back and resumed kino escalation.
after the movies conclusion with all the make out sessions, as the credits started i leaned in as she was leaning in to me, she had already put on her jacket. but was still sitting there watchign the extras during the credits with me. im lik
GL: i forget, are you a good kisser?
she heard me, but she says something else
its still dark people are getting ready to leave.
GL: you didnt answer my question.
HB: (lauging manner) haha blablabla, (i didnt understand her blabla)
GL: well lets find out then. (loud enough)
i lean in 90%, shes not looking at me but at the credits, but i can sense shes aware im moving in.
my nose brushes her cheek for 5 sec she doesnt lean away. another three seconds,(im 3cm from her lips) she wouldnt turn her face toward me. but she didnt lean away.
I think i shouldve taken control and turned her head gently to towards me. shit.
it was still a comfortable SPAM,
HB:; you want me to warm up my car?
GL: yea sure(in a happy manner, at the same time i dont care)
i go to the bathroom.
shes sitting in her car waiting.'
neg neg cocky funny cocky funny in car
BTW: all these car drives, shes playing the music that we listed to when we weere together.
HB: hey you wanna go to innout
GL: sure yea that would be cool
on the drive there she calls her ex, stupid convo, im like wtf(in my mind)
start messing with the music volume playfully while she talking to him.
she hitting me playfully while she talking to him.
he asks her something about who she with
she lies and tells him that she pussed the wrong button on her radio.
innout(burger place)(togo)
shes parking her car, i dont wait for her i go straight inside and start ordering. order a shake. she walks inside starts ordering. i walk outside and give my friends a call. they hanging out near my friends house.
come back inside
she recognizes some ppl she knows
some tall fat afc with his family(i could sense his social value)
so i converse with the family, make them laugh at a couple of my negs at her.
neg some more
we go back to her car
GL: DONT take your time, i gotta meet some friends(cocky funny way)
HB: blablabal (good response)
back at her house.
dont wait for her to get out.
walk around open her door
HB: thank you
GL: ok i g2g
her hands are full of innout food and a drink.
i hug her from the front pretty tight for 1.5 sec. lol
GL: see you around
HB: gibberish ok (3 sec.)
walk away to my car start and leave in a normal fashion
(whole time keeping my cool, cocky funny)
wat i want to know is how come i couldnt or didnt kiss close on her at the movies. and how to get around her one itis with this ex. and any other tips to help game her and get her all over me.
PS: the whole time she is playfully negging me back. and being bitchy/fun.
PS: the whole time ididnt pay for her and she noticed(i used to pay for her all the time)
she complimented me on it by saying, "thats good, your learning never pay for a girl unless shes your gf"
PS: notice also that i got HER to drive ME around
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