Hey guys, so I am new to the site, but I have been in the community for a while.

I wont go into long details, but my first question is this:

I have been "talking" to this girl for a while. I number closed like 2 weeks ago and we have been talking on the phone and texting. We have not made any plans because I work and go to school and so does she. So the schedules just have not made it possible. My phone/text game is decent and she already asked me to come over one night at 1AM this week(she was not drunk) just "lonely and scared" and wanted someone to sleep next to because her roommate was out of town and she was home alone. I turned her down cuz I dont like sleeping in girls beds overnight. Anyway back to the point.

So she is obviously a good kid, kind of stupid but at least an HB9. So I wana fuck her. She has hinted many many times that she wants to meet today Valentines day. I am obviously not going to meet her tonight but need some advice to get out of it. Like a phone call or email. What can I say/do that wont leave her with a bad taste/feeling when she thinks of me knowing we like each other and I did not take her out on Valentine's day.

I cant ignore that its valentines day. She will just think I dont get it and it will display lower value. I was thinking of saying "I am sick and I will make it up to you" and of course I never will.

thats part 1, what to tell a girl on valentines day when you r not taking her out.

PART 2: I have 3 mLTRs. They all know we are "dating" and I am seeing other girls. They all want to be taken out for Valentines day. I am not taking any of them out. Its fucking V-DAY, I am going sarging, this is a guarnteed F close night.

Any ideas or excuses I can give that will sort of be a neg and make them like me more for not taking them out.

Thanks guys

I'm in the same boat. Every girl I'm with knows I'm seeing other girls and they're cool with it. I told them I couldn't take them out for anywhere because I could only take one of them out, which is favouritism and would stir up shit. The alternative was to take them all out at once, which would be quite inappropriate. They all know about each other, but it's common courtesy not to introduce them to one another.

A couple of them were cool with it, a couple gave me the "the others won't find out" SPAM and I just said it's better safe than sorry, so I'm going out with the guys instead. One of them is a little pissy but she'll get over it. I actually ended up not going out anywhere, heh.