| A DOSE OF CONFIDENCE
- DO NOT REMEMBER WHO CREATED THIS, WAS NOT ME THOUGH -
Women can tell within 5 minutes of talking to you whether you're confident or not. Not to be confused with arrogance: don't talk to her like she's below your standards.
The difference is that you can talk to her without getting nervous, being able to listen when she's talking, and treating her like you're not "after her."
Confidence is hard to fake for long periods.
There are certain things you can do that will read "definitely confident on her radar."
- Look her straight in the eye.
- Smile (not a sly grin like "let's have sex.")
- Have a straight posture.
- No nervous ticks (jiggling coins in your pocket, or scratching your ear.)
- Don't be intimidated or leave if another guy tries to talk to her while you two are talking.
- Don't jump into "dating" related topics, as if you're trying to get her number too fast.
- Keep your topics uplifting, like you're some super guy at work, at exercise, with people or social life.
- Get just as excited, serious, or as sad as she is: a fake laugh at her jokes will do more harm than good.
- If she has to go somewhere in the middle of your conversation, let her. If she insists she'll be right back, give her 5 minutes. Any longer than that, move on to someone else (unless you know you two were getting along great.)
If she gives you one of those, "I’m going to the bathroom, I'll be right back" lines, move on or wait for her from another spot where you can see her but she can't immediately see you. If she comes back and is looking for you, step forward and pick up where you left off.
If she doesn't come back, at least you're not standing there like her puppet.- Don't say you're "sorry" or ask for permission for asking personal questions. (Eliminate "SORRY" from your vocabulary!)I could go on forever, but I usually just pretend I already have a girlfriend that looks great and that's lots of fun. If you can mentally do this, it will come through and convey that same idea to her. It will basically say, "I'm used to girls of your magnitude and I'm yet to be impressed by you."
At this point, it's up to her to work hard and convince you to talk and discover her, not the other way around.
If you notice a woman smiling at you say, "Hi," or ask, "May I walk you to where you're going?"
Women sense when a man is feeling confident and in charge of his life, and these are the men who ask women out where ever they go.Human beings are fundamentally curious animals. We're biologically wired to want to know. Curiosity is a knee-jerking response that all humans reliably and consistently respond to.
You can literally use curiosity to force women to respond enthusiastically to your advances.
Let me demonstrate:
When you first approach a woman you can say to her, "Excuse me...I don't know if anyone has ever told you this before, but I noticed something really interesting about you."
I guarantee that 99 out of 100 women will ask what it is you noticed. You've used their own curiosity to literally force her to respond with curiosity.The next thing you should do is, "shut up." Wait for her to respond.
Here's an example:
Her: "So what do you do?"
You: "You'll never believe it if I told you." (Her curiosity if on fire!) Now "shut up."Her: "WHAT?"You: "Well, can you guess?" (Wink at her.)(Digging it in more!)
Her: "So what do you do?"
You: "I practice hypnotism." (Shut up and wait for her response!)
She'll literally be sucked in against her will!Here's a different way you can do it:
Get her curious and then start talking about something totally different. As you talk to her, she'll have that curiosity eating away in the back of her mind and won't leave you until it's been fed.
Here's an example:
Her: "So what do you do?"
You: "Oh, what I do is really interesting...which reminds of what you said earlier about liking exciting, adventurous people and what happened to me when I was..."
You can even make a bigger impact in order to touch her. The thing that's cool is that SHE asked for it out of curiosity and you're showing her what SHE asked for.
Grab her hand without asking and say, "Hmm...that's really interesting." (Shut up and let her respond!)
Her: "What is it?"
You: "The lines in your hand...(laugh), I don't believe this." (Getting deeper!)
Her: "What?"You: "Well, I can tell a lot of interesting things about you by looking at your palm...and I'm not sure if I should tell you this." (Deeper!)Her: "You read palms? What do they say?"
Trace the lines in her palms with your finger, tell her the lines show you that deep down she's a very sexual person...she has a side that she keeps hidden from everyone else...and that it's you two's little secret.(You don't need to know how to read palms to do this.)
Never be shy or afraid to talk to anyone, say what you want or feel you need to say, and look them right in the eye."The person you're with must be on the same page, sexually, and then you're doing it for the mutual satisfaction and excitement. People live regular lives, and the excitement isn't there. Many are looking for the bigger-better-deal. Get to know them honestly, and vice-versa. Be upfront about who you are and what you like." _________________ | NLP eBooks etc | SEDUCTION eBooks etc |
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