In my effort to completely strip down and over-simplify the problem of "Approach Anxiety," I'm going to do what every clueless nerdy virgin is scared of the most. Instead of working hard to build rapport, I'm going to go out and be purposely shot down by women. To prove to myself that a woman saying "no" is not only not the end of the world, but it's completely harmless, not embarassing, and in WBAFC cases such as myself, it's therapeutic. Because let's face it, being rejected is a lot easier than picking a girl up. I think this is something that would be good for me.


Any words of encouragement are appreciated. I definitely don't want to get cold feet.

I get guys to do this all the time, and not only is it awesome, it's a fucking riot. And, more times than you might expect, girls actually respond quite well and they get numbers etc out of it.

Have fun, and give us updates!

I didn't do it. I'm completely hopeless

Hey, thanks for explaining the theory behind this circus act.

I heard about people doing this before and I've thought, "WTF????" But after reading your initial post, I'm thinking that this can be a pretty fun thing to try.

Dude, You need a buddy. You need someone who is willing to be a total nut for a day with you so you can laugh about it together. It's incredible how much difference a "positive" person can make.

I've gone out with people with such serious social issues that when they see me "talking" with girls, they'll tell me things like, "Why are you making such a fool of yourself? . . . They're not going to want to hang out with us . . . They think you're a total dork . . . "

Then you have the guys who go, "Dude, that was amazing! That was hilarious! Ha ha ha! That girl told you to fuck off 1 hour ago and now she's begging us to wait up for her! Ha ha ha! Did you see the look on that girl's face! Ha ha ha! She just gave you the middle finger! Ha ha ha!"

Surround yourself with fun people.

Secondly, memorize ONE LINE and just blurt it out. Afterwards, run away if you want to. Nobody cares . . . really . . .

"Hey, baby you come here often? I bet you do!" Run away!!!!!! Ha ha ha!!

"Hey, hot momma, I likey likey!!" Run away!!!!! Ha ha ha!!!

After a few, you'll probably want to stick around to see a reaction because hell, that's the real fun part.

After a few of those, you'll want to add a line or an additional act. Maybe something like:

Do the "International sign" for breast squeeze by flexing your fingers up and down but keep them low so you won't get arrested or anything and go, "You are like totally beautiful really . . . uhm . . . will you be my girlfriend? No? OK, then how about just a really, really close and personal friend?

This could be fun . . .

I agree kasabi. You need somebody to do this with you. It can be really difficult doing this on your own at first. However once you're with someone that all changes and it becomes much more fun and theres hardly any pressure at all. Go in without expectations and a friend to talk about it afterwards and you will do great.

id try it but im on a college campus and one's reputation is too important to just go out and fuck around like that.

i agree, you have to choose the right place to do it. so far, i feel more confortable sarging in social places i don't know well and won't go very often. when you are still struggling with AA, getting rid of the thought "i might see this set again soon" is better.

Go with a good friend and make sure he knows what you are doing. This is a really good idea and as pointed out you might be surprised with results.

just do it, I think its great idea. Because fear of rejection is what stops most of the guys and when you go for rejection in such a funny way you will see that rejection is not the end of the world

Yeah, that does sound like a good idea, but if you are worried about reputation you shouldn't do it in the first place. I've done it before saying things like "So, you come here often?" Knowing a girl works there or saying average cheesey pick up lines.

Another thing I wanted to point out was if you get rejected on purpose could it possibly affect you subconsciously, and set you back a few lessons in the PUA Journey?

I do still suffer from AA occasionally but only in the day game.....so I am going to try and get a buddy and a few beers and really make it worthwhile somewhere like the mall and coffee shop or somethin.....headin to LA this weekend... i will let you know how it goes.

only way to shatter them limiting beliefs is to get out there and shatter them!

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