There is this wannabe AMOG I know who hangs about with all my friends who feels the need to take the piss out of me constantly in front of other people. Not just in front of girls but mostly in front of my friends who just stand about awkwardly laughing. He is the most arrogant person you will every meet.
The only solution I have is to beat the shit out of him but this would massive tension as I see him everyday.
How do you out-AMOG someone who is better than you at just about everything and knows it? Anything I say he will just bring up something else stupid.

I was thinking about just freezing him out but I see him all the time so this might be difficult. I can easily out-AMOG him in front of girls but how do you out-AMOG someone in a group of guys? This is the difficult part.

I need help!!!

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Repeat after me: "Yeah, cool, dude. Awesome."

Whatever argument he wants to have, whatever challenge he wants to offer, just ignore it. You've got more important things to do with people you're just hanging out with than get into status fights.

Let him keep banging his head against a brick wall and he'll come off as totally tryhard.

More importantly, don't let this affect YOU.

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Yeah cheers for the advice. I could handle it before but now other people are starting to join in so I need to end this now. I have come close to hitting friends of mine over this. I am a kickboxer with over 4 years experience and people are almost egging me on to fight as no one has seen me fight before.

I'll try your approach and if worst comes to worst I'm gonna have to knock someone out. I really hope I don't have to.

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Let him try hard and be unaffected, that fails nail his mum or sister

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lmao that would be brilliant! Just take a photo and then give it to him saying "You shouldn't have fucked with a gamer!"

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Go with Stromy's idea and do his mom as a last resort but post back here when your done i wanna see how it turns out.

I like kind of saying to myself (but loud enough so that he can definately hear) "you're such a tool" while laughing to yourself. like you are unnafected. raises your value, and most of the time the other guys will agree. he will probably spout some other shit back but the important thing is that no matter what he says... who cares! he's a tool. i like to laugh when they say shit, especially if your getting amoged with girls. I posted a topic similar to this one, and there was some good advice in that thread. It was called "handling super asshole amogs" about frat amogs or "FAMOGS"

ohh also, this one asshole, very similar to your situation kept amoging me, so i slept with his best friend... a lot... and let him find out.... yeah.. he doesn't talk shit at all now. Because I'll do it again.

Keep the power in your hands

Being unaffected by what he says is great advice, but I would like to say why I believe this works. When something doesn't affect you, it holds no power over you. If something has no power over you, you are either equal to or better than it. Therefore, I think you need to do some re-framing on the situation. Make sure you realize that this guy is no better than you. When that happens, what he says about you won't matter. You will be unaffected by what he says. And if he acts like he is better than you at that point, he will just look like a tool.

How are they AMOGing you?
Are they doing it in a teasing/fun way or in a put you down type of way? The difference is really key in all these sitations! I joke around with my friends and take the piss, but i expect to get some back cos its good fun
If they are being mean/trying to put you down in a non-joking way then just be uneffected.
From the other side of the arument i can easily be one of those AMOG that knows their better at everything and continue to prove it, a real alpha knows that you dont need to do this and it will normally make some1 look insecure if he has to keep pointing out why he is good. However, this is again where the joke way comes in, if its just a bit of teasing and pulling of legs he is likly doing it for a bit of fun. Tease and have some fun back

He seems to think it's teasing and I do all that with my friends as well. One thing I am good at is comebacks so I have got him good a few times. This makes him kinda mad! However, teasing amongst friends is when you take the piss out of everyone in the group and not just target one guy constantly.
I know it is meant as a joke and he is laughing when he says it but I just want to elbow him in the face!

I have been doing the unaffected thing and just saying "OK James" everytime he says something but that just makes me feel like a bitch!

But hey, I'll keep going and tell all you guys how I get on...

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aahh.. fuck it! knee him in the face!!! hahah.. then his lips would be so swollen that he won't be able to talk shit!! hahaha..

just don't let him affect you and he's not better than you at everything. remember to dust off your shoulders man~don't let him fade you.

Give him a comeback, when he gets mad:
"Dont throw a strop man, if you cant take a joke dont take the piss outta people. *insert change of topic*"

You highlight the fact to all around he is easily effected by others, you highlight you wernt effected by him because you are taking it as a joke and you also subtle tell him to fuck off doing it. Then the change of topic doesnt give him time for a snap back at you and lets him think about it while you talk about something more interesting.

I'm in the exact same situation. Maybe even worse.

lucky for me I barely see the guy at night. To make it worse I seriously think he's a PUA, or even a PUA master, as his pick ups number in the hundreds of the hottest girls.

bottom line, this thread will come more than in handy.

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when i say he is better at me at everything i'm talking about day to day stuff like work, sports and social stuff. he is a man's man so he is pretty crap with girls but that is like his only weakness. i wouldn't use that against him though as i'm no casanova either, and that is harsh as hell!





P.S. i'll update you on my situation. i've been following all the advice in the thread for a while now and it is working! i've stopped seeking validation from him and everytime he says anything i act disinterested or i shoot him down. this is making him seek validation from me, but i'm not giving him any which is making him seek it more! this has improved my 1 on 1 situation with him and finally shut him up but he is still a ballbag when he is with other people but i just act like i don't care.

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