| So a buddy of mine was Sarging a chick at a club last weekend, and I decided to help him out and wing him.
His target was a blonde who had one of those party girl attitudes (it showed by the drunken dancing and screaming when songs she liked came on)
He's already started on the blonde (who we'll refer to as B1)
She's in a 4-set with a brunette (B2) and two gay guys who had been holding hands all night.
As soon as I show up, I get checked out by one of the gay guys and a visible IOI from B1 (she looked me up and down a few times on the corner of her eye, and was looking past my friend at me)
I started talking to B2 about random shit, the gay guys proceed to leave and dance together.
B2 tells me she wants to get a drink. We had a bottle, so I just poured her one, and we kept on talking about stupidities, she was probably the dumbest girl I have ever met.
Meanwhile, my buddy whispers to me that he's not having any success so I decided to take over and have some fun.
I tell him to go grab a bucket of ice.
At this point, I'm back turned to B1 and talking to B2 about making drinks, B1 butts in and starts to try to follow the conversation, I neg her a little since she had a booze stain on her shirt, she turns red and comes up with an excuse that someone spilled it on her.
My buddy comes back with the bucket, I take a piece of ice and put it in B1's mouth
I take another piece of ice and put it in B2's mouth.
I tell them that we're going to play a game.
They look at me with blank stares on their faces.
I tell B1 and B2 to look at each other, and put a piece of ice down B1's pants. She screams and laughs (I knew I had her at that point).
She threw that piece of ice at me with a smile and called me an asshole.
My buddy came and whispered something in my ear (I don't remember what he said).
I told them I had to go, B1 and B2 both asked me if I would come partying with them again the next weekend. I took B1's number and left with my friend.
I didn't call her, but somehow, B1 found me on Facebook. (Stalker I guess haha).
She invited me to hang out, so I figured why not.
Went to meet up with her at like 9 PM last night.
She lives in an area I know pretty well which has a river that you can walk on in the winter. I take her there since there's a nice view, we start walking and she grabs my hand, we continue to walk, and she pushes me into the snow, so I figure might as well try for a kiss-close. She started off giving me a "noooo, I wasn't expecting this" so I pull back and continue walking. She comes to grab my hand again so I take her hand but pull her close and go in to kiss her again, she accepts it this time, and we start making out in the cold.
After about 15 minutes, I bring her back to the car, and she gets into the back seat, I followed, we kept making out for a bit more, but she wouldn't let me get any further, so I tease her a bit, kiss her neck, etc, but couldn't get further.
What should I have done to get further?
What was I doing wrong?
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