Sorry for the length of this post but I felt the need to give some background information on this situation because it is important to me and helps understand the craziness of this girl and our fucked up relationship. (The last few paragraphs are the main ones FYI)

So I'm approaching the second semester of my Senior year in High School and me and this one girl have a long history together. She lives a minute away (and goes to another school thats single sex who has always had guy friends that goes to their "brother school" our rival.) So beginning of this year she began talking to me and texting me again all time (after a summer of seeing different people after I owned her and took a different girl to prom after having been hooking up with both of them). She was telling me how she wanted to finally be with me and how she couldn't take not having me anymore (we've never been officially together and have been hooking up on and off since Sophomore year - our relationship together can be best described as a roller coaster). This went on for way over a month or so but we never hung out (I never made the effort becuase I was enjoying my new group of friends and girls that I was hanging out with from my school while she hung out with her group of guys - also I was playing hard to get). I knew she had begun hooking up with this one guy while we were talking but at the time I didn't care, because I had been hooking up with other people and it's not like we were seeing each other.

But when it came time for our big homecoming dance together (her now bf's school, mine, and hers) she told me that she decided that she couldn't be with me and chose the other guy over me. She looked nearly in tears when she told me and basically said it was out of convenience because our group of friends never hang out. She sent me a facebook message detailing our relationship over the years and then gave this reasoning to why she chose this guy over me (this was written at the time when they were just hooking up)

She is now dating the guy and even though I wasn't too hung up over the situation at the time...2 months later and I'm starting to think about her alot.

I'm getting the sense that in the back of her head she still wants me. She starting to text me occasionally and tries to IM me all the time. On top of all that I ran into her at a party over Christmas where her BF was and was I was getting major IOIs. She was all over me, kissed me on the cheek at one point, told me I couldn't stand too close to her "because [she] knows what would happen", and was trying to get my attention left and right like saying "your mad at me" or "your only mad at me because I'm not fucking you right now". I was also told she was asking for me a bunch of times after i left.

I need the ultimate BF Destroyer technique for this situation. I'm really not sure what to do. I don't know how to handle this situation at all. I really want her (shes cheated on a boyfriend before). Right now she doesn't know what's on my mind though, because she gets I don't want to be just friends and that I'm seeing other people. This week she saw me at my school but didn't come up to me to hi but just texted me the whole night saying how she was "too embarrased to come up and say hi". Then last night I ran into her and a friend entering our basketball game but she was being awkward so I only gave her hug said hi and walked away, which kind of made the whole encounter seem awkward but oh well.

Haha so what to do..

BF Destroyers are in my point of view "proving your worthier than the other guy" and the way its done.

Myself have been in really same situations and sometimes I made a mistake sometimes not. But you want the ultimate here is what I know for sure.

Stop thinking. Just do. The what if, the why, the maybe, the I can't are the poison. That way you think you need super something to win her over. Just don't think. Do what you wish.

Strategy #1: Dump her. Simple. Shes being obese and too emotional drama queen. Get a new one and if you still want her, just drop on a party with your new super hot girl.

Strategy #2: Show her the need for you. You are fine with yourself and whoever you date. But she isn't. Give her the need for you. Be masculine, confident and funny with her like shes still your girlfriend but don't take things further. If you feel you wanna kiss her that's the signal to drop it. I guarantee she will feel that emotion inside of you and when you drop it, the tension that drives any woman crazy will turn into neediness. Its evil but it works.

Good luck mate.
Cheers

Hey man,,, look, good luck with getting her. But keep one thing in mind, if you want her too much you are screwed.

The person with the least amount of interest in a relationship always control it. In this case it's her. Just look,,,, she's got one guy and she knows she has you on the hook. Some guys would get offended and run off and sulk. But I can see you have some game.

You have got to change that dynamic. One thing about women, they can read minds, and she knows exactly how much you like and need her.

Figure out a way to change that dynamic.

Good luck bro..

Hey my friend, first of all. Do you just want to have sex with her? Because if thats the case, then you need some PUA skills i can give you, so she gets bored of the other guy.

Now, if what you feel is stronger, then leave her right away, cause she will hurt you a lot.

I can tell exactly the type of girl she is from what I read. She is very insecure of what she wants in life. She is a selfish person. And probably likes the fact that getting what she wants and when she wants is so easy for her.

The fact that she sent you an inbox message by facebook, instead of telling the same to you in person, tells me that she is very coward, and that she really doesent care that much about you. If she cared about you, then she would have called you...at least.

Also If she is hooking up with a guy, and at the same time she asks for you, and sends you those type of messages, then you dont even have to tell me she cheated once. Thats obvious. And once a cheater, always a cheater my friend. If she can do that with his actual boyfriend, then she could do It to you too. And theres nothing you can do about it.

Now, If you want a relationship with her, forget It, unless you want to be hurt like hell, and suffer and all that shit that sucks.

If you want to have sex with her, then get her wet as soon as possible. Just remind her how sex was with you, and that you would like to "remember" it. She will be thinking about it for a while. Then tell her what would you do to her. She will be horny all the time, and eventually have sex with you, cause she is a cheater, and cheaters do that stuff.

So, My advice: If you want to have sex with her, just have sex with her. I dont recommend you to go into a relationship with this one.



Bye