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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2009 5:12 pm 
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I'm getting sick of this because it happened more than once.

What does it mean when she says "I don't want to fuck. It's not you, it's anyone."

or she says "I don't want to meet anyone. It's not just you.".

I'm getting these kind of answers very often and I don't know where I'm going wrong.
Have anyone experienced this?

The only thing in common the girls that said this had is that they had recent ex-bfs.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2009 5:20 pm 
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Recent boyfriend + Recent breakup = No desire to jump into a new relationship.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2009 6:20 pm 
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What does it mean when she says "I don't want to fuck. It's not you, it's anyone."

or she says "I don't want to meet anyone. It's not just you.".
She's giving you the "it's not you it's me" routine? All kidding aside, if she just broke up with her bf, then I can see her not jumping into a new relationship right away. Also, if she were to say "yes" right now - with her current mental state - you could end up being just a rebound.

Give it a little time and then see what's up.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 3:07 pm 
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Theres no telling what she means by this. It could be anything..

-the last guy could have really done a number on her.

-she could be overwhelmed with some other issue in her life.

-she could just be tired of dating.

The key here is not to let it affect your confidence. You are the prize and if she doesnt want to be with you right now, thats okay too. Its nothing personal.

I feel like sometimes we force the issue here. I have learned (and more recently accepted) that sometimes its just not in the cards. It IS possible to run game on a woman and get her into bed with you.

As far as getting her to actually 'like' you and want a 'relationship', manipulation and games dont really work. Otherwise you will find yourself months down the road still using the cat-string theory on your girlfriend. You CANT put a square peg in a round hole. You CAN put a round peg in a square hole, but it will wobble a bit.

Just dont take it personal and move on. If she sees that it doesnt bother you and sees that you have a strong frame as a man, you never know when she will knock on your door. She might just end up realizing that she is ready to take another shot with someone new (aka YOU).


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