I'm a little confused on this one... maybe just need another opinion.

Anyway, so I met this girl via a mutual friend of ours. I ended up getting her number and made her give me a kiss on the cheek when I left. I'd say I did pretty well when I met her.

Anyway, so me and some friends were going out and she calls me. I say that we're going to this one particular bar, and she was invited. She brought all her friends with her... about 2 car loads' worth. I ended up getting pissed off because one of her friends put a cigarette out in my beer, but I told her that I was giving the benefit of the doubt and even though it could've been an accident, I was still a little miffed, so I was leaving. (I was already a little drunk by the time she called.)

So during that night, she mentioned needing a computer. I told her that someone gave me theirs, but I hadn't had a chance to check it out to see what the deal with it was. It was just taking up space in my apartment, so I told her that she could have it, and so long as she bought the parts to fix it, I'd fix it in exchange for dinner.

She came over yesterday, and arrives with a guy friend in tow. Turns out, he's her playmate.

"So how do you know this guy? He seems pretty cool," I asked when he stepped outside to smoke.

"He's a good friend," she said, but had that particular undertone.

I give her a knowing look.

"Well the sex is fantastic, so I might keep him around."



My immediate reaction was to feel a little insulted*. However, I was very careful not to let my body language betray me. "Mmmmm, sex. That reminds me," I said, pulling out my phone and texted another girl, inviting her out later.

She calls me today, says she's going out for sushi (I LOVE sushi), but I already have plans. I tell her this, and she asks, "Well, what are you doing later?"

"I might go down to this one club tonight. There's supposed to be some really cool DJ's and there's no cover tonight."

"Oh really? Well let me know when you go, and I'll meet you up there."





Ok that was a little long, and I'm a little confused.

So either she's sexually more carefree than most women and maybe was trying to make me jealous or something, or she's really put me in the LJBF Zone. Either way, I guess the plan doesn't change much.


*I mean, I'm sitting here gaming this girl and she brings her fuck toy over? I felt a little insulted by that. I probably am thinking too much into it. I'll try to forget it.

EDIT: I've realized where that anger came from. All this time, she's lead me to believe that she was single. She even brought up at one point that she didn't have a boyfriend. I felt led on - that's why I was angry.

Just a quick update...

Went out with my friend to the club and I had a great time. She met me up there with boy-toy in tow, but it didn't bother me anymore. If anything, I could still use her as a pivot.

Then I noticed something... she was talking to me way too much for his liking. He was getting visibly irritated. She'd get up to go to the bathroom and I went to the other room (where she went) to talk to my DJ friend who was spinning that night. Boy-toy followed and stood near the doorway watching me. I waved him over and introduced him to my DJ buddy.

She actually recommended that we bounce around a little, and I was cool with that... I had planned on going to my favorite dive bar at some point anyway. I'm heading out and she's like, "Wait, we have to wait for him!"

"Wait for him then... You know how to get there!"

So I walked over by myself and started chatting with another friend of mine who's a door man at a club a few doors down from the dive bar. I go into the bar and they were there up near the stage. When she asked, I told her I got caught up talking with a friend, then turned around and walked back down into the bar area. They followed right after me.

Throughout the night, boy-toy was getting more and more irritated. He'd put his hand on her ass and she'd brush it off. He'd put his hand on her knee and she'd brush it off.

He left to go to the bathroom and I asked her, "So your friend seemed like a really cool guy earlier. What's eating at him?"

"Well he's getting a little too serious too quickly for my liking. And all his friends tell him that I'm weird..."

"Huh... you don't say? I hope he chills out... he seems pretty cool."



The band comes back on and I say, "I'm gonna go let my ears bleed for a bit," and walked back up to the stage area.

She went to follow me, but boy-toy grabbed her and started talking to her. I kept going, sat by the stage and just grooved to the awesome music.

I'd glance down their way every once in a while, and every time, they looked like they were fighting. Eventually she came up (with him following) and gave me my hug and kiss on the cheek to say goodbye, and I shook his hand. His grip was a little overly firm, and his eyes really betrayed his emotions.

I think I won.

If not, who cares? She'd still make a great pivot!

Sir, that story was awesome. The way you handled it brought a tear to my eye. It seemed absolutely perfect in every way. The use of BF destroyers, the way you "befriended" you're rival...man, that was amazing. The DHV with the DJ was really nice also. Bravo.

It really seems like you're reeling this girl in though dude. If she was really paying that much more attention to you over him, it seems like she definitely has a high interest in you. I wouldnt really put you in the LJBF zone at all man. Maybe find out the status of her and her boy toy in a round about way next time you talk to her? Or don't even inquire about it and just keep throwing game her way like you have been and act like he's not even part of the equation. And honestly, like you said, if all else fails, you can definitely swing a pivot out of that for sure.