hey whats up fellas, never thought I'd be posting in this section but here i am seeking advice on the devil of monogamy. Basically, I just need your analysis of my situation and to get some advice on what the hell I'm doing.

Theres this girl, lets call her Beezy. Now, for some reason, I'm greatly interested in Beezy. but anyways, I met her through a mutual friend and we've been kino flirting for about a week.. I got her number and we've hung out. Shes actually sleeping behind me in the extra bed in my room right now.

Beezy broke up with her long-time bf a few weeks ago, and is kind of interested in some other dude who she made out with before I met her. I'm interested in Beezy, but I'm not sure if i'm in LJBF zone already. She talks to me about her boy dilemma and her other problems (I sound like the gay best friend, don't I?), but we still flirt....I've been teasing her and kino escalating a lot.

My question is, do I still have a chance with this? She asks for boy advice from me...no idea if i'm supposed to give me the nice advice ("yeah you should act how you're feeling with him"), or other advice ("FUCK THAT DUDE YOUR MINE BITCH"). Sounds like im in LJBF, but i've barely started hanging out with her so if i'm already in the zone then i've just set the fucking record.

Any advice on what i can do?

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PUA or die, bitches

i'd say you should just run normal attraction game with her when you guys hang out.
When she goes talking about the guy she wants, give her dull answers and change the topic. Keep her away from thinking about him when she is having the best time hanging out with you and she'll realize that she's getting into you.
Don't go advising her like her gay friend. Flirt and do push pull, kino etc

good luck
base_player

Huh she's sleeping in your house? LJBF 100 % percent now. Oh well better luck next time. You know what... I was about to say something that I entirely don't feel confident enough to suggest to you, because I have still to work on it myself. Watch Zac and Miri make a porno with her, then put on a real porno maybe 30 minutes into the movie. See her mood, and progress from there.

She wants you to wuse out and act like her brotha. Go their and you'll ruin everything. You got to nip that dynamic in the bud. You're competing with two other guys and are sure too loose unless you get the title of "the man" back. No girls gonna talk to "the man" about her old boyfriend problems cause they know the man don't want to talk about that lame ass shit.

Next time she brings that sad assed shit it up, just change the channel.

She "Oh yeah, there's another thing I forgot to tell you about that Brad did to me!".

You " That reminds me, I forgot to tell you, I just got this super hard core video. It's crazy,,, they're gonna ban this movie next month cause it too hard core. Can you believe it?

Or whatever...

But in the end, you're gonna have to get way more into her head than the other guys are. Turn the game up.

Good luck.

Man, you are in the game. You are just not seeing it. She can get to know you a lot by the advices you give to her. The trick is how you give them to her.


If she is acting sad, or nervous, etc, talk about it with her, and find out why. After you find out why, let her know (not explicitly) that she would be happier with you, cause you think different, and you are a great guy. You have to do this when you are kino escalating.

Get into her mind, thats a very difficult skill to master