I posted a bulletin on myspace to get a girls perspective and opinion on being well groomed and metro. Most of them are all positive. Only like 1 or 2 disagreed. Part of the LAS VEGAS rule is to be well groomed. So heres what I posted and the responses so far... Plus, this bulletin was great b/c I could thank them, and then talk to them more...
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Subject: Honestly, this is a test for girls....
Body: Is it a turn off if a guy is well groomed (METRO).
Or is it a plus?
Wearing earings, necklaces, clean nails, well fit pants, modern haircut, perfect skin, designer clothes, cant deal with mess, feeling and looking fresh.
Metro means - a guy who cares about his appearance and hygiene.
I've been having arguments with different people.
Only girls can answer this
Be honest
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1
you're asking this as if all girls have the same answer. PERSONALLY, its a plus. I like a guy to take care of himself. But it can be a turn off too. if they get moody about it.
2
i honestly think that guys who are well groomed are better than ungroomed guys. because if my boyfriend stunk....id throw him in the nearest pool and dump hella soap on him so its a plus if youre well groomed.
3
It's a plus, unless they're a girl about it.
4
plus plus plus
5
might as well be a lesbian. The best part of dating a guy is all the stuff we say we hate. I would neva eva be with a METRO guy.
6
Yeah, Its a good thing to be well groomed, as long as the guy isnt super anal and still acts like a guy. Nobody wants a girly brat with a penis.
7
its not, AS LONG as he has SOME muscles & he acts like a guy. like plays video games for hours, enjoys watching ufc, has some manly sport to play, YOUUKNOW(: but if not, then i think its a turn off, kindaaaa'
8
Sure, why not? I dislike dirty &unkempt boys. BUT It's only annoying if the guy acts more like a girl than a girl does...does that makes sense?
9
Mmmm, I think it's nice for a guy to be well upkept. Like, I don't wanna hang around some dirty boy. Nastyyyy. But like, no one like's a vain person. As long as the guy's not totally into himself and puts in extra amounts of effort just to pamper himself, then I think its good. ;p
10
uhmm i think it comes to a point where a guy is to "METRO" but i have no problem with guys being clean o.o sometimes its sexy just depending on the guy i guess? i mean no girl wants a slob of a boyfriend. but no girl wants a guy who looks kinda homo if you know what i mean. Lol, hope that helped?
11
really, what girl wants a dirty guy who could give less about his appearence, i think a lot of girls would agree with me on this. clean guys are a good thing
12
its a good thing, but theres a point were they shouldnt care TO MUCH,
CHAT
So you need to tweak that explanation a bit 