HOW AND WHY WOMEN TEST YOU
- CREATED BY DAVID DEANGELO -

Have you ever called a woman on the phone to set up a date and had her say: "Friday night? Sure. Call me on Friday and we can talk about it..."?

Or have you ever had a woman ask you if you're a player?
Or have you ever had a woman challenge you about something ridiculous?
Or have you ever had a woman call you five minutes before a date and cancel?
Or have you ever had a woman pout and get upset because she didn't get her way?
Or have you ever asked a woman for her number and had her say "Why don't you give me your number and I'll call YOU"?

Well guess what... you were being tested.

At some level, the woman you were dealing with was testing to see how much control she had in the relationship.

The paradox of "testing" is that if you COMPLY with what a woman SEEMS to want, you will usually FAIL the test.

Hey, I never said that it made sense.

I was reading a great book recently called "The Way Of The Superior Man", and inside he points out that a woman will often ask a man for something DIRECTLY... but if he DOES what she asks, she will be disappointed and ANGRY with him.

Ever been there?

So what's with this testing stuff, anyway?

Well, the answer is fascinating.

Women test men because they need to QUICKLY figure out what they're dealing with, and they can't expect a man to just be straight up and honest about his strengths and weaknesses.

I mean, let's face it... us guys like to talk a big game, but when it comes to walking the talk, we often can't back it up.

Also, attractive women have a lot of options. They have their pick of men. And attractive women prefer STRONG men. Not physically strong (although this can be an advantage), but strong in CHARACTER and PERSONALITY.

Women aren't attracted to WUSSIES.

So let me ask you... if you were an attractive woman that was being chased around by 100 guys, how would YOU go about figuring out which one or ones was the "real deal" and which were merely FAKING strength and confidence?

Of course... you'd have to TEST.

But you couldn't test by saying "OK, I'm going to give you a test now, so get ready".

No no no.

You'd have to use "blind" tests. Tests that would allow you to see a man's true strengths and weaknesses. And in fact, you'd want to use tests that ideally DIDN'T ALLOW HIM TO KNOW THAT YOU WERE TESTING... OR WHAT YOU HAD DISCOVERED ABOUT HIM WITH THOSE TESTS. This way, if he turned out to be a was a Wuss Bag, you could slip away quickly and easily.

This would give you the power. Of course.

And if you did this OFTEN, you'd eventually become so accustomed to doing it that MANY of the tests would become UNCONSCIOUS and work their way into your NATURAL, EVERY- DAY way of communicating with men.

Well guess what?

That's what's going on with attractive women.

Many of the tests that they use with men are actually OUTSIDE OF THEIR AWARENESS. They test us automatically!

And if you fail one of these tests, there's a good chance that you won't get another chance.
In this fast-paced world, we humans don't have the time to spend getting to know people over a few months or years to figure out whether or not they're the kind of person that would make a good friend or mate.

We need to know NOW.

So we use shortcuts.

Testing is a shortcut for women.

It lets them discover VERY RAPIDLY whether you have BALLS, or if you're just another one of the bazillion Wusses that are trying to get her attention.

I hope you feel what I'm saying.

So next time you're standing in front of a beautiful woman who you've just asked for her number, and she says "Why don't you just give me yours and I'll call YOU..." try CHUCKLING out loud, and saying:

"Cummon. Don't give me that old line. Write your number down, and I'll only call you 25 times a day until you wind up having to change it, because I have nothing better to do with my time than call someone who doesn't want to hear from me."

Then hand her a pen, point to the paper, and look her in the eye expectantly.

Love it.

Now, obviously there's a lot more to this issue of TESTING. There's a lot more going on than meets the eye.

There are all kinds of subtle cues and body language that women read to decide just what kind of man you are... and these cues also trigger ATTRACTION (or the opposite).

I've spent a lot of time researching this topic, and figuring out exactly what makes women feel that powerful emotion called ATTRACTION, and what repels them instantly.



*** PART 2 ***

First of all, let's talk about the whole concept of
"testing", and why women do it (and, more importantly,
how to deal with it when it happens).

In a nutshell, "testing" is a woman's way of QUICKLY
finding out a lot of information with a very small
investment.

You must remember that attractive women are being
approached ALL THE TIME in one way or another... just
about every man they meet tries to pick them up or
come on to them.

Women can FEEL this happening, even before it
actually starts.

Now, if a woman is "available", she must figure
out a way to "separate the men from the boys" so to
speak, and figure out if a particular man is going
to be worth her time.

Enter the TEST.

Also, if an attractive woman is out on a date with
a man, or having a phone conversation, etc. (or
anything else that could be perceived as taking things
to the next level) she must find out quickly whether
this particular guy is:

1) Long-term relationship material
2) Short-term "affair" material
3) Friend material
4) Wuss material
5) The Gimp from Pulp Fiction

Keep in mind, an attractive woman has LOTS of
options. She's being approached probably 100+ times a
month with date offers, etc. and could never hope to
spend even a small fraction of her time with all the
men who are interested in her.

She must use TESTS to quickly cut to the chase and
find out what a particular guy is REALLY all about.

Tests can take many forms.

Here are a few common ones:

1) Canceling plans with little notice, or flaking
out entirely without notice

2) Asking for gifts or favors outright

3) Acting snotty, demanding, dramatic, or manipulative
to see if you'll put up with it

4) Asking or telling you to change your behavior

5) Threatening to leave or take her attention and give
it to someone else if you don't comply with her wishes

...and the list goes on.

As you already know, women often use more SUBTLE
tests as well.

For instance, complaining that you don't answer her
directly, to see if you will.

Or telling you that what you're doing is annoying
to her.

If a woman complains because you're being difficult,
LAUGH. Pretend you're a bad little boy on the school
playground, and you just pulled her hair... and she's
upset with you...

What would the little boy do?

He'd laugh... and then snap her bra!

Keep things fun. Don't let her change your direction
or upset your mood.

You absolutely CANNOT turn into a Wuss and start
explaining yourself.

There's ALWAYS a better way to do things.

For example...

Let's say you've decided that the woman you're
talking to is really starting to get annoyed, and you
want to give her a little chunk of info.

Instead of saying "Don't mind me", say "OK, I'm
27 years old, I work for an accounting firm, I pay
my own rent, I wear socks that match, and I love my
mom... is that better? How boring is that?"

In other words, TELL HER what she wants to know,
but say it in a sarcastic way that also says "Fine,
you're boring and since you can't think of anything
fun to talk about, I'll answer you... Brat".

Keep in mind... this whole style of communication
is VERY different from what most guys do... and it's
often surprising to a woman.

When she kicks and screams a bit, it's usually
because she's genuinely surprised. But don't mistake
her whining for REAL resistance.

If she actually gets upset and doesn't want to
talk to you anymore just because you didn't answer
her questions, and instead busted her balls a bit,
then let her go. You learned something VERY valuable,
and you didn't even have to marry her to learn it.

Also, when a woman starts resisting your evasive
and humorous comments...

...LAUGH!

Have fun.

You need to learn to enjoy yourself during this
process. It sounds to me like you're letting this
stuff get to you... which is NOT useful.

She asks if you're dating someone, and you ask her
if she's proposing! And then you say, "You've got to
be rich, though".

Now THAT'S the right way to answer a question like
that one.

To finish, I'm going to do something a little bit
unconventional, and include another email that I just
received from a guy in Australia (He has the same first
initial as you... I wonder if there's a relation...).

Read this:

"You ROCK,

Since I am new to your publication I am unsure if you
get much mail from Australia.

What a difference a week makes. Last Saturday I had a
date with a great young lady. Smart, sexy, beautiful
etc. Well the 1st date didn't go to badly, some
passionate kissing and fun, but when it came time to
try to take her top off, the answer was a firm NO.
That is where the night ended.

Mustn't have been too bad cause I got a follow up date
the next Friday, but I also got the cold(ish) shoulder.
What she didn't know is I got you book on Wednesday.
Wow, what a difference. I realised she was lining me
up for the hoop jumping as a potential "long term
relationship" and sex was at least three dates
away-way too far.

She was playing games, but your book came to the
rescue. When i phoned her to make the date, she said
"I will PENCIL you in". Well in my old ways I would
have said "Yeah sure", but there is a new Greg with
Double Your Dating Power. When she tried the line I
came back with "Well let me know. I am a busy man,
if you can't make it, I need to know-NOW."

When I picked her up, she kissed me on the cheek
(after playing tonsil hockey the week before, was a
little strange). So I put your strategies into play.

I didn't touch her for 4 hours, didn't hit on her,
didn't look at her, was very standoffish. Went out
of my way to point out her strange behaviour. At
one stage I called her "A walking contradiction".
When she went down the "But it will change our
friendship if we take this further (read long term
relationship) path-I said "That's fine, I just want
to have a little FUN."

When I finally did kiss her she melted. Only for me
to stop after about 45 seconds. I then didn't touch
her again for about 1/2 an hour.

She finally took her own top off (I couldn't budge
it 6 days before) and then she said "I will make
you a deal, if I take a piece of clothing off, then
you must take one off as well. She was chasing me!!!!

Well we undresses and had a great time for about
three hours. Afterwards, she invited me out! Love
your stuff. Must go and re-read your wonderful words
again. I can't wait to get the DVD's.

Regards,

PS: So if any of you want to come over here, know it
works and works really well. And there are plenty of
great looking women.



...OK, so I included this story because I wanted
to demonstrate a different aspect of testing, and of
"passing" this kind of testing with FLYING colors.

Often, a woman will test you by RESISTING you, or
by telling you that "things are moving too fast" or
even by asking you what your intentions are with her
long term (when you've only known her a short while,
and have no intentions of any kind).

What this gentleman above did was to SEE her bet,
and then RAISE her.

He called her bluff, basically.

WOMEN LOVE THIS!

It INSTANTLY shifts the power from one side to the
other, and totally changes the situation around.

Points I'd like to comment on:

1) The first time you saw her, you kissed. When you
tried to take off her top, the answer was a "firm NO".

The reason why the answer was a "firm NO" was
because you gave her something to resist. Instead of
amplifying the ATTRACTION in the situation, and
building the ANTICIPATION, you just went for it.
Next time, you'll know better.


2) The second time you saw her, you didn't do anything
that even LIGHTLY indicated that you were interested
in her.

Great job! This is perfect. Most guys can't go four
MINUTES without screwing things up by trying to kiss
a woman, asking her how she's feeling, or doing some
other Wuss Bag thing that blows everything. You were
able to stay cool and calm for FOUR HOURS... and allow
the tension to build. I GUARANTEE you that she was
wondering what the hell was going on.


3) When you finally did kiss her, you STOPPED after
45 seconds... then didn't do anything else for a half
hour.

Again, great move. Perfect. It doesn't surprise me
at ALL that she took her own top off, then told you
that you had to take something off as well. This is
what happens when you understand the process by which
women test... and the process by which women become
sexually aroused.

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