Hi guys just joined up cool site!

Bit of background:
25 years old been rubbish with girls most of my life alot of it due to confidence and self esteem issues which im dealing with, had one girlfriend whom cheated on me go figure!

Started reading the game, got hold of a few canned materials spent hours on pua sites then went out and tried them out all night game had a few one night stands maybe HB's 5-6 blah blah....

Went into the gane to better myself with the long term goal of having a decent relationship.

Fast forward a year joined a online dating site got chatting, got chatting to one girl who seems to stand out a HB 8ish, added me on facebook chat some more and now going out for a drink with her next week!

So far all good! Though every date ive had gone rat-shit get the nerves like anything yet drunkenone night stands are nothing??

Now I have no idea how to ply this bearing in mind ive never met the girl before so how do I play it? Go stright into mid game? Run a few routines etc? How would YOU play it in my shoes? As I havent a clue and could do with a basic layout.

Thank you so much in advance!

Trustno1

Just relax.

Dates are a time for smattering of game, a focus on communication and an attempt to find points of connection.

As you said, your game has gotten you one night stands. That's what canned material is for. If you want a genuine connection, you should be showing yourself, not trying to be someone else.

So sit back and relax, you wouldn't have gotten this date if the girl didn't already like you.

If you want something to help you out in this, read Juggler. He focuses on conversation and believing you are The Prize.

Just relax.

Cinnamon

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Cheers mate will have a search! What about a few light hearted negs?

No Negs.
Not on Dates.

Picture this:
See the problem?

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