The other day, me and my wing were just standing chatting with each other and this girl comes up to us and says that we were to quite for the crowd! How would you use the fact that she opened our set in our favor??? what kind of negs would you use for a comment like that?

Negs? When she opened you?
Ouch.....
As a female who opens boys on a fairly regular basis I gotta say that's damn harsh.

Don't neg her, she saw you, thought you were cute and decided to come say hi, that's not a time when you neg her.

Imagine that you approached a girl and all of a sudden she negged you. Would you like that? Don't randomly neg her just because she's cute.

The amount of crap a girl has to go through when approaching is monstrous. First off, a girl approach immediately screams slut or desperate, (great way to start huh?). Then if a girl approaches a set it's assumed that she CAN'T get blown out, ever. If a girl gets blown out of a set it is catastrophic. There is an assumption that girls can get ANY guy EVER. If we fail, it is huge.

Now what do you do when a girl approaches your set? You thank the Gods that she had the guts to do it. You are dealing with a high-value girl here. Like I said, she's already given you an IOI by approaching. Now you can game her without fear. So pull out your best game and impress her. She will love it.

Why do girls approach? The same reason boys approach.

Cinnamon

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Her: I'm a pretty girl! I thought you looked awesome, so I broke every social norm in the book to come and talk to you instead of waiting for you to come talk to me! Also, you guys look kinda quiet, so I'm going to come and add some fun to your life!

You: Nice hair. Is it real?

Are you seeing the problem here? She doesn't need negs. She needs you to validate her coming over to you by being as awesome as she's hoping you are. DHV. Relate-reward. Escalate. Whatever it is you do to establish that you are possessed of the awesome, do that, and gauge the situation as you go.

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Repent now and save 50% on your next divine judgment.
-Monkey's Little Brother, Spud

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I feel like a jerk when I comment to ppl with advices when I am 16 and only got in to seduction art, but hey.. I write what seems reasonable from my exp. Don't be mad. =]