~~~ TAKEN FROM THE BOOK: The Mystery Method: How To Put Beautiful Women Under Your Spell ~~~


THE BOUNCE:

One way to change confort building locations is to do so at that time. This instant venue change is called bouncing. (As when a friend says to you, "We're leaving for the Restaurant. Let's bounce.")

In other words, the purpose of bouncing is to successfully get you from one comfort building location to the next, so that you may continue spending time with your romanitc interest that same night. Often, these are in fact structured opportunities for the woman to pursue you!

It's interesting to note that, for whatever reason, bouncing is not only a necessary escalator, but also is a powerful comfort builder in-and-of-itself. It just creates that vibe.

If you are successfully bouncing and the hours are passing, comfort nearly takes care of itself.

The best way to calibrate your bouncing is to just do it as much as possible. Eventually your intuition will tell you when it is the right time.

EXAMPLES OF BOUNCING:

** Daytime **

I'm starved, I've got to grab a bite to eat. Come join me.

I need to get an envelope from the post office, come keep me company.

I'm gong down to (place) to grab a shirt I need to get, let's go get some lunch.

** Nighttime **

We're on the guest list for a better club. Come with us.

I'm starved. Let's get some food.

We're going next door to sit down for a bit. Would you and your friends like to join us?


THE TIME BRIDGE:

The second way to jump comfort locations is to agree to see each other at a later date. This is called time-bridging.

The so-called "number close" (as in, "I got her phone number.") isn't even a close at all. There is only one type of close, really: sex. Are you a closer?

Incidentally, there is no such thing as a "kiss close" either, since kissing is just a comfort-building tactic. Just like pulling the back of her hair is not a hair pulling close, or biting her neck is not a neck biting close. They are merely comfort building tactics.

So what is a time bridge?

A time bridge is an "optional" move in your game that you play "only" if you cannot follow the standard game plan of bouncing her for food and eventually sex. After all, if you both have the time and interest, isn't it better to continue "now" rather than try to continue it at another time?

But perhaps she won't bounce. Maybe logistics are screwed up, her friends are there, or you just haven't had the opportunity to build enough comfort for her to accept such escalation. Then what? Well, you try to build as much comfort and trust as you can, and then you build a time bridge.

While talking, say, "It would be cool to talk again sometime," and then, when she agrees, you pop out your notepad and pen as if "she" had requested it, saying, "Give me your number."

If your frame is congruent, she will behave as if it was her idea and comply. It all depends on the energy between the two of you. Is it "on?" When things are "on" they just seem to flow so naturally. Instead of looking for clever ways to ask for her number, focus on creating that chemistry that can grow between two people.

The purpose of the time bridge is simple: to bridge the gap of time that keeps you apart. You are with her "now" and the time bridge will allow you to be with her again in person so that you may continue. Remember, the courtship goes from "meet to sex," not from meet to phone number. Merely getting a number is "not" a bridge, because a bridge has two sides. A number doesn't have a definite "other side." When you call, you're stuck trying to set a date to see each other again, if only you did that in the "first place," you wouldn't even "need" her number.

A time bridge leads to a definite time and place where you will be with her in person to continue the courtship. It is something that you have painted onto her imagination and perhaps you even read a routine about it. Whereas merely getting a number is nothing more than a stairway to heaven. It doesn't take much practice before you start getting phone numbers and realize they are all blurring. Makeing those numbers more solid is a serious concern.

Try setting a time and place to meet up again. You should be prepared with two or three time bridges for situations when you can't bounce.

EXAMPLES:

I'm picking up some shoes at the mall tomorrow. Come keep me company and we can window shop.

I've got to drop off some stuff to my sister. Come keep me company for the drive. I'll pick you up at eight pm.

I have a dinner party in two weeks. You HAVE to come!

I'm going to the (place) on Thursday to see a show. I'd like you to come. Let's exchange numbers.

Notice how you already have a reason to see each other in-person again. If you got the number, you could be in a position where you have to try to convince her to see you again. You don't even need to exchange numbers. Exchanging numbers conforms too much to the stereotypical dating frame. If she won't meet you again, then the problem was with you not building enough value and comfort in the first place, and the number wouldn't have changed that.

Having solid game is more important than getting phone numbers. Solid game makes for solid numbers.

In the third example, you may get the number. (You've got two weeks to put together a dinner party!) Call her the next day and use the phone to establish greater rapport. Time on the phone counts, it's just another way of becoming a normal part of her life.

If you have enough comfort with her, you can meet her somewhere without even exchanging numbers and she will be there. But if you don't have enough comfort, the number will blur, which means it was worthless anyway. So don't place too much importance on getting numbers, practice solid game.

Choose locations that are conveniently near your house or where you plan on being anyways. Don't go out of your way to meet a girl who may flake on you. Have a life. The more compelling your life is, the more she will want to be a part of it.

Don't go to coffee, instead say, "I have to meet my friend Kathy at the office pub to drop off a page layout for an underground newsletter. Meet me there."

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