I can't stand the whole concept of openers. They sound so fake and scripted. If you want to approach a girl or a woman, what are some natural things you can bring up?

I suppose you can bring up some things that are relevant to your life, but what if you live the simple life and don't have much to talk about?

No social life.

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All of these methods make it out that you have to have some kind of social circle going on, so you can come up with DHV stories.

I mean, when is enough enough? Why can't a girl just like you when you introduce yourself and say hi, and be friendly? This whole negging and DHV is pathetic.

I have to come up with a story, and demonstrate pre-selection, but I have never had a girlfriend before? How the hell do you pull that off without lying about it?

Don't approach. For most it is not natural. Find ways to get people to approach you. My advice is to work from within. Nurture and love yourself before you worry about girls. Might take a while, BUT I promise you that once you start down that path you will be the one who attracts others to you!

The pick-up techniques are lazy and just wrong. The hardest thing to do is to bring out your true self. My God, if you can even begin doing that you will be on a higher level of living.

Take a step back and focus on taking control of your life. NEVER follow the crowd. Do all things in moderation. Rest. Study (not school studying). Look around. Relax. Love all things for what they are. Find peace with all. Sounds goofy, but the stuff really works Oh yeah, don't forget to laugh and NEVER take things too seriously.

Because that's BORING. Women, just like everyone else, want adventure, or at least some sense of it.


I'm not saying lie by any means, but maybe actually try to get a social life you could talk about.

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