I'm still under the impression that all the chicks that I see in those social places have boyfriends. But now that I know a bit more, I am thinking about just asking myself in my head "Does she have a boyfriend?" and then answer the question "You damn right she does, no go over there and find out". I mean that's my theory on getting me to do something, how else should I look at it?

No, single women all sit at home and do nothing because they're miserable.

Seriously, there are tons of single girls out at bars and clubs... they're not out there because they're necessarily looking for someone but they're sure as hell open to the idea. Get your ass over to talk to them and find out if they're single, and if they're not then move the hell on.

Who cares for boyfriend. All the pretty chicks have boyfriends. But boyfriend is not a wall you know.

I am wondering if any of these super PUAs are able to get with a girl who has a BF. Now thats a real challenge for ALL of us!

If she's not completely satisfied in her relationship then it is possible. Most women aren't satisfied in their relationships and all you have to do is find what it is that they're missing and be able to give them that as well as whatever else they desire in a man. Obviously the more satisfied they are and the fewer things that they are missing, the more difficult this is to do.

In truth, girls with boyfriends are actually easier than single girls once you know what you're doing. Single girls have to be convinced that they'd be better in a relationship than being free and single, which is a desireable thing to both men and women. Girls in relationships have things that bug them in their relationship, so as long as you demonstrate you can give them that thing they wish they had, or don't do that thing that pisses them off it is pretty simple to have them gain interest in you.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Hell yeah they do! Sometimes it's hard to tell if they have boyfriends because they're hanging with a group of guys. But go talk to the group and find out for yourself.

Thanks guys I especially like what Rye Lee wrote, I never thought of it that way! Its all about the way you look at it!. And its only as hard as you make it to be. Wow this will take some work. Now lets get back to the topic of single women at the bar, are they there?

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AFCs like me know they got no game, they also know that they have been AFCs for a long time...

Single chicks go to bars all the time. However they usually are with guys who may or may not be there BFs. You would be surprised how many chicks just hang out with male friends that they don't F. It's one of their first lines of defense against us PUAs. Too bad we know how to open a set including the AMOGs all around her.

Ya and its really intimidating to us AFCs! I aslo hate the AMOGs.

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AFCs like me know they got no game, they also know that they have been AFCs for a long time...

ah BF's are nothing man, i met this girl a week ago and started dancing with her and she wanted to hold hands in the club while her friends were all around here, at one point she mentioned the BF and you can get away from that with some cocky line like

- ive known you for 5 minutes and already your talking about your problems (playfull)
- youve also got more than 1 pair of shoes right

whatever it doesnt matter, if your game is good enough, they want to be with you more than they want to be with their BF's.

fact is, Players > long term BF's. especially in the club when hes not even around.

GOGO!

DUDE! I love your response to this! Makes me a little less intimidated by the whole BF shield!

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AFCs like me know they got no game, they also know that they have been AFCs for a long time...

yeah and its so true, (im newuser).

if your more fun and more exciting than her current relationship, your in.
its just how it goes.

you want to be that guy where 'it just happend' with, and you will be if your good

btw, i saw a friend of the particular girl yesterday and out of nowhere she came to me, introduced herself, while giving loads of IOI's and she told me how great her friend is..

she was trying to hook me up with her

goodluck m8!

Last I check single girls tend to go to bars and clubs. If you are really having trouble with that mindset, try another arena like concerts, performing arts/theater, mall, etc.
If you are morally okay with this.