Ok, this is the situation..
This girl is a school friend of my friends and every time we met she was giving me IOIs and always she was the one that wanted to talk to me and she kept the conversation going. So, I told her that maybe we ought to do something together and we went out. I K-closed her that evening and she wanted to go out again.

Then there was this shooting incident near her home town and she was really confused so she said "my life is just so messed up right now and I don´t want to hurt you in any way" and I knew the situation so I doubt it was a shit test so we agreed to be just friends. Three weeks later we were at this school party and she came to talk to me and wanted to go dancing and before I knew it I K-closed her again. I had to leave pretty early because I was going to work the next morning and she said "I wish you didn´t have to leave" and she wanted me to go to her place the next day. I know she likes me but this situation feels like one of those on and off and on again and off again relationships..

So, what do you guys think? Should I just get over myself and find someone else?[/emff]