On Monday morning I emailed 2 ladies I met at a party on Friday. Said we really should meet up sometime, say midweek for coffee. I've haven't heard back yet.
I know, learn to accept rejection or, maybe they will reply later.

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Been a swinger for 5 years and now going to more normal parties. Read Tony Clink and Neil Strauss's books. Find that they are useful and would like to go further than just chatting ladies up and getting their email addresses.

Well, maybe you should rather have waited like till tuesday?or even better wednesday to set up a ''get together'' on thursday!
Wait no less than 4 days and let them know when ? it shows confidence
If no reply wait a week and try again if no response cut them off

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The truth is that maybe you should have wait a bit more before writing emails to them.
Another thing, that is the only thing that you put in your email?? I prefer to put at the very end the "date idea", before that you should have show to them that you are a fun guy, like David DeAngelo email example , that is a great idea from which you can develop your own.
I prefer also to make appointments via phone, and not email, its more personal for me, and perhaps works better.


ICE

Well after waiting I got a reply from one of the ladies this afternoon.
Email said let's meet up for a drink sometime.

So I called her at 8.30pm tonight.'Hi its me from the party on Fri. How's your day been?
Her ''With friends about to have dinner- salad
Me Yeah it's hot.
Her - what about you- I'm about to cook a steak.

I said I'm free Tuesday (This is Wednesday) to meet up.
She= Next week ?!
Said she's about to go to dinner and will call me on Friday or during weekend.

Yes I did have point written out. Didn't want to come across as weak if I said ok to do earlier. Suppose I should have back tracked when she sounded suprised at Tuesday next week. Thought about negging her but didn' t know how to .

Left it at that and said look forward to her call.

Think I'll send her a text message on tomorrow or Friday saying I was a little hasty and might be able to see her sooner.

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Been a swinger for 5 years and now going to more normal parties. Read Tony Clink and Neil Strauss's books. Find that they are useful and would like to go further than just chatting ladies up and getting their email addresses.

next time try not to finish in a position in which you have to wait her call, that situation will rise your anxiety and you will sound needy. Finish the conversations always in your ways, keep the ball in your court.
Let me know how things continue, good luck


ICE

Move on! If your target is interested she won't wait. Emails are so simple to send. She would have replied immediately. No girl should ever make you wait! Stand up for yourself. Demand respect.

Remember, only target girls that will find you interesting. Don't buy into the American B.S. about females wanting an equal partner. I call it "DATING DOWN". Younger, poorer, less cool, etc. Those are the girls you should go for. It is in their blood to look for someone who can protect them. [/b]

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

You don't want to seem desperate, nor indifferent. So if you score some digits, I suggest Caling the next day (Tell her your just waiting for the bus or on ur break). Something that isnt inportant, but she needs to get that ur a busy guy, and that u did think of her. If youre gonna email, use a different email for ur pick-ups. Sorta like a "Junk" email, even though that sounds horrible.... it logical since you dont want them adding you on facebook, myspace or whatever else you are using.

You already made some mistakes with the business like attitude you had through email and the phone.

This sounds like you're making an appointment. You have to be more playful and flirty. This is how you would talk to a dude.

You have to remind the girl through email and the phone of why she would want to meet up with you. All you're doing is reminding her that she'd be bored.

S

This is understandable.. but.. some people don't check their emails often.. i would rather gotten a phone number or somethin if i would make that kind of invitation.. If she is interested.. then you would know right away instead of playin BS!.. Now.. if you really needed to email her.. then sayin " Let's go out for some coffee" is not the way to go.. There should be at least flirtatious comments.. (this is the reason why i rather talk on the phone.. email gives you limited expressions!).. plus.. i wouldn't email her that soon.. well good luck to you... let us know the update...