Hi friends!

I recently added a HB10 at a social network (just like myspace or something). And then she gave me her MSN (I didn't ask for).

I've been doing normal talking with her, just like friends. No PUA stuff. But already trying to get to know her.

But today I had a interesting conversation with her at MSN:
After that we kept talking normal stuff, and I said I would call her tomorrow morning to say if I WAS REALLY GOING TO THE MALL.

So, there are a few things to consider:
* Original conversation was not in english (I translated it, so some words might have lost meaning)
* She's not from my country, but she speaks my language fairly well because she's being living here for some time. Although I don't know if she's shy to express emotions in my language.
* She's younger than me.
* Text in bold was written at the same time, so we were both thinking that at the same time.

Now, I need you to help me understand if she's got any attraction to me already. If not, how can I build this?
Also, what should I do to meet her tomorrow without having her friends to bore us (destroy the obstacles)?

PLEASE ANSWER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. I NEED TO ACT FAST!!

Who cares if she already has attraction even though theres no doubt that there is some. About meeting her, i would probably pass this time around if shes going to be with her friends it might be hard to control the frame.

Its your choice i just think under these circumstances you dont stand a good chance to ramp up the attraction, and you might have trouble isolating

It's hard to say if you've never met her in person. I think you should chill out. I seriously doubt someone could be totally attracted to you just by talking online.

You have to meet up with her. The fact that she gave you her phone number means that she trusts you enough to meet up. So that is a good sign. Just go to the mall and do what you wanna do there. Make sure your not just going there to see her and don't be all AFC if she doesn't answer your call. If you do meet up with her take her along to do some of the things you planned.

If she brings friends so what, you can build comfort with all of them. If you play it right the friends will think your a cool guy. Just be fun, random, and most importantly yourself! Can't be that hard.

Holly crap!

I called and someone else answered the phone! I guess it's her father!
He was talking in a very strange way! I had bad time trying to understand him! That's what you get when you try to date chicks from other countries!

At least I got the phone from her house. But I'm afraid I'll not understand her. What should I do?

Ok. Went out with HB10, and there was one guy I already knew in the group of her friends.

So I started talking with the guy and I kind of ignoring her.

Then she smiled to me and came for a hug and said "Hi! How are you?" and asked "So, are going to watch a movie too?" and I said "Yep! I think not the same movie as you... but yeah!"

And then she was like "Nice!" with a confused face.

Then I was walking around with them and building comfort with her friends.

Then she suddenly started kinoing the guy I already knew just in front of me while I was talking to the other girl that was there.

So, later I said "I have to go back to my friends. See you..."

And when I arrived home she said "Hey! I really liked to meet you!" and gave me her real number (not the father's number).

And I answed like "I liked to meet you too. So, are you already using this new number?" -- I think I should have played something here. I was being TOO NICE.

Then trying to fix this I send a message "Nice! So, I can just flood your SMS box now, heh? Just kidding... I'm not that bad! xD"

But don't know if this was really effective (I'm still learning, rAFC...).

What should be my next move?

Should I call her?

I'm an rAFC too...

But I think she tested u, and she should be punished for it. How about going out to meet new girls, just leave her for a while?
Maybe next time u accidentally run into them with ur girl(s) on ur arms, things will be different?

I'm looking forward to hear ur story soon. It's interesting

PS: I don't think saying a joke like "I flood ur MSN box now" and right after apolozing is not a good idea. It makes ur look uncool. If u think u r saying a joke that can not be thought as a joke without u saying "it's a joke" (omg sry my grammar ), then don't use it.

I think I kind of fucked up the situation.

She was showing some IOI's but then I talked to her on MSN again it was like that: I think I did something wrong here. She was being kind of cold. Just answering my questions and not asking like before.

Is this still recoverable? Should I just leave her alone for a while and see what I get?