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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2009 6:37 am 
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Hi all, been reading magic bullets, and have read the game and some other small stuff here and there.

Anyway, i have a date with a HB7 on friday and was wondering if you guys could give me a few pointers. Here is what i have planned thus far.

She hasn't got a car, and neither do i, she lives on the other side of the city so i was thinking of picking her up in the city and take her back to my area by public transport. She doesn't feel comfortable travelling alone, so i thought this would be the best idea. Anyway i have already said i would meet her after work in this central location.

After i have her back in my area, i intend to take her to this coffee place thats very close to my place, then after coffee drop into my place and pick up some drinks and go into the nearby park (where i plan to K-close), then go back to my place again to drop stuff off.

Next is where im not sure about, there isn't much around my area that is fun, nothing open at night anyway, just old peoples pubs and restaurants. So i thought id take her to a restaurant, keep it casual and just have a main meal then shoot out of there and get some ice cream or alcohol and take her back to my place for a dvd.

A few questions now:
I am a talented pianist, is it ok to play to her? i have done this in the past and seems to have worked for me, i just been reading lots about not bragging or showing off. i think this would be a good way to get her into my bedroom and on my bed, as there is a piano in there next to my bed, and i shouldnt get any 'state breaks'.

How do i address her concerns of getting home? She doesnt really like cabs and may want to stay near her place instead of my area because of this. I was thinking of offering (even tho i intend to get her to stay over) to go with her in the cab and make up a story that its on the way to someone elses place and drop her off, but this is a blatant lie and i dont want to do that.

Another question is, do i tell her my plans for the date? She my be resistant in coming into my area because its far away from her area. If she resists how do i get past this?

Her place is a no go, she lives with her folks.

Anyway, thanks for reading.

Any advice, opinions, ideas or comments will be most welcomed.
Ed


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2009 6:51 am 
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If your a good pianist then by all means try to use that... Also i wouldnt plan on trying to K-close at the park.. Just do it when it feels right. if you have it all planed out in your head that ur going to k-close at the park your going to be thinking about it way to much and it may not be the right time. Now since your talking the bus or something id try to make the dated as late as you can that way she has no choice but to stay the night. hope this helps best of luck to you

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2009 6:58 am 
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Thanks for the advice on kissing, it didn't actually feel right having it all planned.

About her going home, she will not go on trains alone, she just wont. So she knows that when i take her to my area that 1, shes going to get a taxi home, or 2 shes staying the night. This is why i fear she will resist my plan on takin her to my area. The taxi is both expensive and she has told me she doesn't like using them because she always gets sleazy taxi drivers tryin to pick her up....

Any ideas?


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well if the dated is going well i dont see why you would need to take her home tell morning. you did say she lives with her folks so idk if shes able to spend the night at your house.. but if she is, id say after you get her into your bedroom roleplay a bit and tell her you dont like taking the train or taxi after dark cuz theres lots of gross guy that hit on you.. Make a game of not wanting to take her home tell morning.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2009 7:22 am 
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Thanks again for that.

There might be a problem as she may not want to go to my area because she doesn't want a rough time getting home (by taxi), and doesn't want to appear slutty so doesnt want to stay over. So what can i say to her so that she will come with me into my area? Once shes there and im doing my thing im sure it will work out, just im worried more so of gettin her here lol.

What u think?


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2009 8:01 am 
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What you could do is purposely leave something at home and tell her you forgot something. You bring her over to your house and impress her with your piano skills for a minute or so then leave with what you forgot to where ever you're going. After you're done your date and you go home tell her you have work tomorrow so she can only come up for a few minutes.

If she is actually into and you've spent more then seven hours together and you've demonstrated that you like her in a indirect manner then she will probably end up going with you to your place unless she's a virgin but even that won't stop her from being attracted to you. Basically, unless your main objective is getting pussy at the end of the night, there shouldn't be anything to worry about because she is so into you right? Sex should only be a benefit not the main goal.


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Thanks everyone.

So what about the rest of the date? Any advice?


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