my friends - a simple question here. how do i tell a good friend of mine whom ive been attracted to for some time (and whom i've turned down in the past when i knew she liked me) that i like her and see her as LTR material? specifically, how do i do so by staying the alpha male, avoiding sounding at all desperate, and being as smooth a PUA as possible? what if she drops the LJBF line?

This is based on my experience-

It sounds like you have know this girl for a while and at one point she wanted to be more than friends with you. So you already have the comfort and attraction down.

All you need to do is make her remember the attraction she felt for you in the past. Do this by "innocently" flirting wit her and building sexual tension the next time you hang out with her. Start joking around with her in a subtle but sexual way. Do some kino- push her slightly away on her hips.

Just start to naturally escalate the situation. Than make a move. DO NOT tell her how much you like her and that you want to be her b/f. Just take action. (easier said than done)

This normally works best on giddy nights, when everyone you are with is acting a little crazy.

I agree with Omega. Do you know if she is still into you? Escalate escalate escalate.

The thing about women is that you have a time-line. You already turned her down, so that may have turned her off. You have to act on their time, or they are done and/or bored of you and your shenanigans.

Whatever you do, do not tell her you like her or ask her to be your GF. Take control of the situation. Kiss her, when the moment is right. That is what the alpha does. He does what he wants when he wants without regrets.

Good luck bro.


CK

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Those two have all of but the last question answered so I'm not going to add anything to it.

However, as for being LJBF'd, I read in a Maxim or a Playboy on ship a letter that Ross Jeffries wrote to the magazine about how at some point an article in the magazine said that you can't do anything to recover from an LJBF.

Jeffries talked about pattern interrupt and dropped this gem which I wish I could use:
"If she says Lets Just Be Friends, tell her that you'd rather cut a nut off then call someone your 'just friend'. We're good friends and that's that."

So, I heard from a reliable source that I am now in the LJBF boat, but I haven't told the girl anything. I know she knows that I liked her in the past, but I've never come out and directly said it. What now? I'm not going to let this turn into a case of the oneitis, but I feel like I gotta win this one. I feel like I've almost been led on and I really will never say never. I've got my pride and dignity and I'm not going to go tell her exactly how I feel about her because that's the last thing thats going to get me laid, nor am I going to chase or beg. But what should I do? I want to come out on top here!

Coming out on top is over rated unless you are literally on top of her.

You messed up by not acting when she was interested. You may never recover from that. Your best bet is to meet other women. Show yourself that she isn't just the one girl for you. When she sees that you have other options, and are a man in demand, than at that point you may have a shot with her once more.

CK

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