| Hi all, been reading magic bullets, and have read the game and some other small stuff here and there.
Anyway, i have a date with a HB7 on friday and was wondering if you guys could give me a few pointers. Here is what i have planned thus far.
She hasn't got a car, and neither do i, she lives on the other side of the city so i was thinking of picking her up in the city and take her back to my area by public transport. She doesn't feel comfortable travelling alone, so i thought this would be the best idea. Anyway i have already said i would meet her after work in this central location.
After i have her back in my area, i intend to take her to this coffee place thats very close to my place, then after coffee drop into my place and pick up some drinks and go into the nearby park (where i plan to K-close), then go back to my place again to drop stuff off.
Next is where im not sure about, there isn't much around my area that is fun, nothing open at night anyway, just old peoples pubs and restaurants. So i thought id take her to a restaurant, keep it casual and just have a main meal then shoot out of there and get some ice cream or alcohol and take her back to my place for a dvd.
A few questions now:
I am a talented pianist, is it ok to play to her? i have done this in the past and seems to have worked for me, i just been reading lots about not bragging or showing off. i think this would be a good way to get her into my bedroom and on my bed, as there is a piano in there next to my bed, and i shouldnt get any 'state breaks'.
How do i address her concerns of getting home? She doesnt really like cabs and may want to stay near her place instead of my area because of this. I was thinking of offering (even tho i intend to get her to stay over) to go with her in the cab and make up a story that its on the way to someone elses place and drop her off, but this is a blatant lie and i dont want to do that.
Another question is, do i tell her my plans for the date? She my be resistant in coming into my area because its far away from her area. If she resists how do i get past this?
Her place is a no go, she lives with her folks.
Anyway, thanks for reading.
Any advice, opinions, ideas or comments will be most welcomed.
Ed
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