Heyguys there is this girl that i was kinda seeing before, never dated her but we fooled around alot if you get what i mean, but for a while now i lost the attraction she had for me just wondering for some steps to help re gain the attraction she once had for me


thanks guys
zapped

I'm actually in the same situation with two girls and would like to know a good quality answer to this issue.

From what I've seen that works is breaking off contact completely. Out of the blue I had this girl I really like message me but I started giving in way too quickly and I was eating out of the palm of her hand. So that didn't work out.

I think a good way to re-kindle the attraction is, show a major change. Dress completely differently to get her to notice you, in other words peacock. This is of course if you see her on a regular basis. Just come to school/work one day wearing a fucking cowboy hat, see what happens.. When she tries to ask a question, light that bitch up with DHVs and negs.

yeah i see what you mean Im going to try that i mean were quite close in terms of being friends but i just feel scardd to try breaking off alot of the sonnection we have just for the reason that i do see her at school quite a bit and we talk lots i just need to know that even though it may not look like the attraction is there it is ya know?

Do what you did before but better (you said you had her attention). I'd recommend cutting off the communications for a week or so just to put some mental distance between the now and future and the unlikeable past. Also lets her know what she may or may not be taking for granted.