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| StreCH | PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2009 1:10 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jun 29, 2008 4:23 pm Posts: 126 | | is it good to text a girl for a few days then stop 1 or should u do it everynight untill u see each other? or untill plans are made or just have conversations everyday?
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| Blanc | PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2009 1:22 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Wed Dec 31, 2008 10:26 pm Posts: 105 AOL: chssuperstar26 Location: Italy | | i wouldnt text her everyday. depends how she responds, and what you both talk about. what do u guys talk about and for how long? _________________ 
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| StreCH | PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2009 2:11 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jun 29, 2008 4:23 pm Posts: 126 | | we tlak about my dya her day and i joke around with her untill i go maybe we text for about an hour
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| Brad- | PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2009 5:26 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Dec 25, 2008 5:39 pm Posts: 93 | | By the third or fourth text you should either be setting up a day2 or call her on the phone.
Girls interpret a guy not calling them as scared to talk on the phone, you don't have much to lose by texting...
So either set up the meetup over text, or at least call her to crystallize in her mind that you are actually a person too.
Keep escalating, and get outside your comfort zone. It's the only way to grow.
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| StreCH | PostPosted: Wed Jan 07, 2009 4:14 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jun 29, 2008 4:23 pm Posts: 126 | | i told her i loved talking on the phone and when i did have a cell phone i would call those were 50 50 is she would answer she onyl called back if we had something planned, so after hey whats up should i jump right into it or should i just fucking say a joke then say hey im a call u in 5
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| Blanc | PostPosted: Wed Jan 07, 2009 9:09 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Wed Dec 31, 2008 10:26 pm Posts: 105 AOL: chssuperstar26 Location: Italy | | haha what? call her and say hey ask her shes doing throw a joke in then say invite her out somewhere dont ask like would u like to come out, tell her to come up like hey come out with me to so and so _________________ 
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| StreCH | PostPosted: Wed Jan 07, 2009 11:54 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jun 29, 2008 4:23 pm Posts: 126 | | ok thanks and also she texted me today, and is said "hey i cant talk right now ill talk to ytou later" should i text back tonight or i was thinking text her tommrow and then call her?
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| Blanc | PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:17 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Wed Dec 31, 2008 10:26 pm Posts: 105 AOL: chssuperstar26 Location: Italy | | ok what is your goal with this? cus you cant just beat around the bush and expect for something to happen. by texting her alot with out ever asking her out your gonna enter the friends stage. call her tomorrow when your off and you know shes off bullshit with some jokes and stacking and then set something up. _________________ 
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| StreCH | PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 1:27 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jun 29, 2008 4:23 pm Posts: 126 | | wel were expected to hang out friday so idk if i should text tonight and call tommrow or just call tommrow. iwould like to go out with her at somepoint, also friday would be out 3rd time meeting at a soical gathering and we went 1 time by our selvs
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| Blanc | PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 2:45 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Wed Dec 31, 2008 10:26 pm Posts: 105 AOL: chssuperstar26 Location: Italy | | call her tomorrow and say hey whats up blah blah blah then say im gonna pick u up at so and so time cool? and then bullshit for another minute or 2 then hang up. and then friday throw some game on it _________________ 
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| Brad- | PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 8:31 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Dec 25, 2008 5:39 pm Posts: 93 | | You need to escalate. Have you kissed her yet? You should have. Try to get her to your house.
Have something there that you can use as an excuse.
"Hey, have you seen google earth yet? You gotta check it out. IT IS SOOO COOOOL!"
Be 100% decisive and assertive and just push for it. You got to keep escalating before you are put in the friend zone.
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