not that i want her back, put i've grown fond of her and like having her around. but since we broke up and after about a weel or 2 of whining on her loss i've decided i want to keep her near. i think there is an incredible level of chemistry between us and i really enjoy having her smiling around. but since i tried to re-establish contact she has raised a huge bitch shield and wont take that pissed off look off me. even though i'm being really friendly with her and not making a big deal on the "breaking up" part. I belive she is shit testing me... well and might be a little insulted on the fact that i took her advice on not waiting for her and start dating a Fuckfriend i had before going out with her.

i heard from a friend that she make a real big deal on me dropping off on her house after Christmas and was told she really doesn't want to see me. which i doubt XD.

That's not a bitch shield. A bitch shield is when women refuse approaches by acting like a bitch. She is just bitter, that you've moved on and she hasn't. Whatever you do though, don't make a big deal about it though. Force her into your frame not the other way around. She's still emotionally charged, which means she still wants you. Not to mention the fact that she's jealous and lonely during the holidays. She wants you around because deep down she believes she has the power to make you come back to her and to make you change your ways. She's made because your actions show her she is powerless to do that.

Move on bro....You can be friends with an ex.

There are three kinds of basic relationships:

1. Partnership
2. Friendship
3. No relationships

She must be one of them and If she cant be number one then she is eather number two or three....do you fuck your friends? prob not atleast I dont....so that leves one left....no relationship and this is why being friends with an ex never works. Dont try to game an ex because it will always fuck you over in the end and play with your head.