ok so theres this girl and ive been talking to her but i dont know how to bring it to another level. so my situation is that ive been talking to her on AIM alot and im always complementing her and im playful but i also feel like ive been putting her up on a pedstal. also she broke up with her boyfreind of a year and a half about two months ago and shes still really good freinds with him so yea. also i only have one class with her so i dont get to much time to talk to her in person what would be some good pointers? i would really appriciate any help!

Mention a party you are going to, in AIM. If she responds positively, ask if she wants to join you and your friends.

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First off, you have definitely put her on a pedestal. Women don't like nice guys who always agree with them and do whatever they want.
Be yourself. Not the self that comes out when you're around hbs, but your true self that you have repressed.

Have you ever argued with her or disagreed with her? Have you ever teased her or laughed at her? Have you ever given her a silly nickname or told an embarrassing story about her in public? Have you ever told her "no" or made he follow you instead of you following her?
This is what you do if you want a woman to see you as a strong confident man. Juggler calls this Alpha nice.
Also, women don't respect subtly and they don't respect bluntness. Try calling her sexy... its a medium point between "you look nice" and "I want to have sex with you".
You can't escalate without risk. Take a risk and try to push conversation it less friendly more sensual topics. Ask her out for a date. Meet her for coffee or drinks or something. Don't worry about weirding her out, the worst you could do is flatter her and make her see you differently (which is what you wanted to begin with).

Finally, change you body language! Stare her in the eye, even though its uncomfortable (this alone will make her interested in you if done correctly). Avoid fidgeting, looking around, looking at the floor, playing with your hands, slouching, or any other nervous ticks. Stand confidently, look her in the eye, speak slower and deeper (more seductively), and practice your facial expressions. A lot of guys have trouble with women because they go around bright eye and smiling like steve carrell on the cover of 40 y/o virgin. Try a more serious and seductive look. Furrow your brow slightly and grin coyly. Look up james dean, awesome facial expressions.

Well I've rambled on for long enough. Good luck.