idk if I'm actually gonna give it a shot but I was just wondering if its even possible to get out of this spot. I told one of my friends I thought one of her friends was hot. This friend of hers I dont even know, I've seen her once or twice in the hall. Never meet her. Shes a junior, I'm a senior. Anyway, it kinda became an inside joke, I'd make sexual jokes and stuff regarding this girl like "if shes there I'll go" or "tell her to skip the after party and come straight to my bed, thats where the party is" we laughed but one time I made this kinda joke in a txt and that girl saw it. She basically now knows all these sexual jokes I've made. At first she thought it was funny, later she was kinda creeped out b/c she thought I actually LIKED her, not just think shes hot. My friend tried to explain it but she doesnt really get the difference. Anyway, is there a way to get out of this with like a lot of negging or whatever, or do I need to be mystery to pull somthing like that off.

Two things.

Change your frame to where you don't think it is a big deal at all and you are completely comfortable with the situation. Laugh it off, don't even try to defend yourself at ALL. If you have to, go the complete opposite way if she prods and laughingly confess a deep profound love for her. You are the guy who gets lots of girls (right?) and so you have no need to try to get acceptance or comfort with this girl. By having this mindset, she become way more comfortable with you and maybe even interested.

Increase the dominance of your frame by appearing 'cool' (because in high school, coolness = status), and come across as social and friendly as you can, especially when in her vicinity. Be completely free to joke and tease with anyone, especially girls. This will amplify the effect of the previous paragraph, and probably generate attraction for you.

You can bust her balls, treat her like a little sister, joke with her, but don't show any overt or even anything beyond the subtlest of subtlest notions of attraction towards her, until she shows them to you first.

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when you talk to this girl you thinks hot just dont give her any value at all just talk to her like normal and that will throw her off. use alot of negging but dont be an asshole and just DHV alot to but dont be cocky.

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when you talk to this girl you thinks hot just dont give her any value at all just talk to her like normal and that will throw her off. use alot of negging but dont be an asshole and just DHV alot to but dont be cocky.

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